modify allocator strategy
remove changes of legacy buddy_allocator
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* - Fix to crash of Transformer when mkldnn is to be used

Desc: TensorCopy was not setting MKLDNN primitive descriptor when layout was to be kMKLDNN

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* - Enable transformer for mkl-dnn

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* - Compilation fix

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* - Removed manual selection of MKL-DNN ops to be used in Transformer test

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* Add cpu_quantize_placement_pass for C-API quantization

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* added a comment on required pass attributes

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* Add cpu_quantize_pass for C-API quantization

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* add cpu_quantize_pass test

* fix lint: add include memory unorderd_map and unordered_set

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* fuse_relu 1

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* tuned 2 without squash

* fixes

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* remove unused vars

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* refactored

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* fix lint c-style cast -> C++ style cast

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* remove QuantMax and c style casts

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* last usage of QuantMax removed

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* Fix Analysis Predictor UT

Check if memory_optimize_pass has already been added
to the analysis config before adding a new one, so
that it is not added multiple times.
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* change map to unordered_map

fix the forgotten part of cpu_quantize_pass_tester.cc

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* removed quantized attribute

* fixed cpu_quantize_pass_tester and op attr comments

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* removed redundant line

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* removed gmock

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* fix after merge

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* Support Sync Batch Norm.
* Note, do not enable it in one device.

Usage:

build_strategy = fluid.BuildStrategy()
build_strategy.sync_batch_norm = True
binary = fluid.compiler.CompiledProgram(tp).with_data_parallel(
        loss_name=loss_mean.name,
        build_strategy=build_strategy)

2. remove lod check in reshape op
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* Add cpu_quantize_squash_pass for C-API quantization

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* add cpu_quantize_squash_pass teste

* fix lint: add include memory unorderd_map and unordered_set

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* lint fix 2

* fixes

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* refactored

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* fix windows ci

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* fix broadcast with mp mode

* polish code test=develop

* fix bcast strategy test=develop

* fic cpplint test=develop

* fix py3 failed test=develop

* fix comment test=develop

* update comment test=develop

* remove concast_cast and refactor code test=develop

* reduce flag use test=develop

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* Revert "Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy" (#16022)"

This reverts commit e2da3a5b.

* use default stream
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* Fix the node's sort issue when the graph is changed.

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* Clean code

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* Fix the node's sort issue when the graph is changed.

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* Clean code

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* add parallel graph dist test=develop

* update test=develop

* update style test=develop

* add parallel graph dist test=develop

* update test=develop

* update style test=develop

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