* update ScopeBufferedSSAGraphExecutor&AsyncSSAGraphExecutor&ThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&FastThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelExecutor for fetching unmerged results.

* add the unit test for fetch_unmerged.

* update ut for multi-card and multi-cpu.

* add the error message and the user suggestion in FetchOpHandle. test=develop

支持不依赖nccl进行编译。[1/2]

多卡下，如果没有打开WITH_NCCL开关编译，多卡不能通信，则只能选择一张卡使用。
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cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
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* fix ref_cnt pass, test=develop

* add cpp unittests to reference_count_pass, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* polish code details, test=develop

* futher polish hint msg, test=develop

* remove the useless warning for user to avoid confuse test=develop

* fix memory reuse bug on feeding variables, test=develop

* add comments to reference count members, test=develop

* make leaky relu inplacable, test=develop

* force add unittests to pass coverage, test=develop

* update executor feed

* fix memory overlapping of fetch var (return of executor.run), test=develop

* fix wrong usage of ParallelExecutor in op_test, test=develop

* remove useless parameter and simplify code

* avoid tensor destruct untimely, test=develop

* add testcase independent of OpTest, test=develop

* remove legacy memory optimization codes, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* follow luotao's comments, test=develop

* first version memory optimize pass, test=develop

* remove move_tensor_sharing_pass, test=develop

* refine code comments, add unittests, test=develop

* turn off memory_optimize by default, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments, test=develop

* fix grammar error, add const qualifier, fix pass_test exception message, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments 2nd, test=develop

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* update pe reduce config
test=develop

*  drop the local_exe_scopes of the previous parallel_executor
test=develop

test=develop

test=develop

* update execution_strategy option default value
test=develop

* fix doc error
test=develop

* remove nccl dep when the number of GPU is 1
test=develop

* update CPU_NUM config
test=develop

* fix the ParallelExecutor on Windows
test=develop
* restrict to use one GPU only under windows

test=develop

* add event for fast executor and add threads for scopebuffer executor
test=develop

* reset drop local scope counter
test=develop

* move pass to ir

* polish code
test=develop

* fix dependency
test=develop

integer', test=develop

test=develop

* modify the interface of Pass::Allay
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

* fix Pass::Apply interface
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

* wip allreduce in op

* wip

* wip

* wip

* wip adding test

* wip for conflict with mp mode

* fix tests test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix travis clang format test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* update api.spec test=develop

* delete comment test=develop

* fix cpplint test=develop

* fix test=develop

* follow comment test=develop

* add file test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* update test=develop

* to be compatible with sync_bn, and fix mp mode in develop test=develop

* Support Sync Batch Norm.
* Note, do not enable it in one device.

Usage:

build_strategy = fluid.BuildStrategy()
build_strategy.sync_batch_norm = True
binary = fluid.compiler.CompiledProgram(tp).with_data_parallel(
        loss_name=loss_mean.name,
        build_strategy=build_strategy)

* fix broadcast with mp mode

* polish code test=develop

* fix bcast strategy test=develop

* fic cpplint test=develop

* fix py3 failed test=develop

* fix comment test=develop

* update comment test=develop