* support no need buffer vars in dygraph, test=develop

* fix inference compilation error, test=develop

* update no_need_buffer_vars_inference, test=develop

* add unittests for no_need_buffer_vars_context, test=develop

* refine no_need_buffer_vars by return ref, test=develop

* polish some codes, test=develop

* remove legacy memory optimization codes, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* follow luotao's comments, test=develop

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* move pass to ir

* polish code
test=develop

* fix dependency
test=develop

* add use_cuda to inplace pass,test=develop

* add test softmax_with_xe_inplace test,test=develop

* fix cdn issue, test=develop

* fix memory optimize bugs, test=develop

* fix memory optimize bugs, test=develop

* remove add/sub_2 op, test=develop

* disable memory_optimize by default, test=develop

* disable inplace activation in python, test=develop

* fix unittests, test=develop

* fix unittests, test=develop

* bug-fix, test=develop