* [Kunlun] PR1:Support one Kunlun card training in parallel executor (#29337)

* [Kunlun] PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor (#29574)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29926)

* add bkcl.so in whl for kunlun (#29947)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29961)
Co-authored-by: NQingshuChen <qingshu.chen714@gmail.com>

* deprecate python memory optimize, test=develop

* remove memory_optimize in unittests, test=develop

* add unittests to deprecated interfaces, test=develop

* fix op graph view
test=develop

* rewrite inplace pass and fix reference count pass bug
test=develop

* fix unittest failed
test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop