* perfect softmax functor

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* remove cudaDeviceContext

* remove more template

* fix rocm compile

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error

* add softmax log_softmax

* refine rocm

* refine unittest

* support cudnn kernel moving

* polish cmake rules

* add unittest for coverage

* remove orig kernel

* remove softmax cudnn kernel

* fix softmax test failed

* fix npu func error

* resolve conflict

* rename gpu dnn kernels

* fix name rule error

* fix compile error

* update fp16 namespace

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* move operators/math/math_function_* to pten/kernels/func
* namespace from `paddle::operators::math` to `pten::funcs`

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

* update

* update

* update

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The macro should be defined by compiler rather than by source.

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* add fp16 backward support
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* add sum_op fp16 test

* disable test_dist_save_load
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* add check_grad for sum

* add unit test for softmax_grad fp16
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* add scale_op unit test

* add mul_grad_op unit test for fp16

* add cross_entropy_grad and eman_grad unit test for fp16
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* fix cross_entropy unit test

* add pool2d fp16 unit test

* refine conv2d fp16 unit test
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* refine activation unit test
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* fix ci
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* follow zhihong's comment, copy from https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/12796
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This reverts commit bf3c3496.

* "cherry picked operators changes"

* "remove duplicated code"

* "add constant setter"

* "add get expected kernel"

* "fix ci"

* "add fill constant"

* refine conv cudnn enforce

* update

* update all cudnn ops

* fix

* initial commit

* fix error

* fix typo and order

* "add softmax cudnn functor support"

* "add testing"

* "refine cmakelist"

* "sequence softmax forward speed up"

* "add softmax grad"

* "fix sequence softmax test"

* "add double precision'

* "fix softmax test"

* "add softmax cudnn support"

* "fix softmax cudnn test"

* "add softmax to nn.py"

* "fix compile bug"

* "refine cmakelist"

* "fix ci"

* "fix based on comment"

* "fix based on comments"

* "fix ci"

There are mainly following fixes:

- take `DeviceContext` as the template parameter of math functors and OpKernel instead of `Place`
- remove `eigen_device` interface in base class  `DeviceContext`
- remove `GetEigenDevice` interface in `ExecutionContext` and base class `DeviceContext`
- remove unused `platform::EigenDeviceConverter`
- rename `REGISTER_OP_GPU_KERNEL` to `REGISTER_OP_CUDA_KERNEL`
- rename `USE_GPU_ONLY_OP` to `USE_CUDA_ONLY_OP`

* add NDEBUG switch to PADDLE_ENFORCE