[cherry-pick] Variable, fusion_seqexpand_concat_fc, fusion_seqconv_eltadd_relu error message enhancement, test=develop (#24066)

* Chery_pick:[Eernie TRT]: add slice op and add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support (#23723)

* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
test=develop

* fix dynamic shape test ut
test=develop

* fix comments.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* cherry-pick [BUG]: Head number can only be > 1 on multihead op (#23974)

* support the head number == 1
test=develop

* fix slice op error.
test=develop

* cherry-pick :disable trt test, test=develop (#23984)

test=release/2.0-beta

* cherry-pick of DeviceContext Split, test=develop (#23737)

* New feature: thread local allocator, test=develop (#23989)

* add the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* refactor the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* provides option setting strategy, test=develop

* add boost dependency to cuda_stream, test=develop

* declare the stream::Priority as enum class, test=develop

* deal with PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS macro in pr #23816

* add diag_embed op (#23385)

* add diag_embed op, test=release/2.0-beta

* solved a conflict, test=release/2.0-beta

* Add `nn.interpolate ` (#23434)

* add bmm and arange op test=develop

* add bmm and arange op test=develop

* cherry-pick OP Normal, Uniform, Xavier Initializer, smooth_l1, mean_iou error message enhancement (#23751)  test=release/2.0

* cherry-pick,Optimize the error messages of paddle CUDA API

* fix the error messages of paddle CUDA API

* Refactoring PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS, and apply to curand/cudnn/cublas/NCCL

* remove build_ex_string

chery-pick from the pr#23978

* enhance pad.* error message, test=develop

optimize compare and logical ops error info, add test case for this ops， add some test case for those ops

cherry-pick #23645

[Cherry-pick 2.0] Error message enhancement of conv2d_fusion and bugfix related to control nodes detecttion in fusion_group (#23985)

* Op(conv2d_fusion) error message enhancement. (#23596)
* Fix the error misjudgment when there are control nodes in graph. (#23943)

* OP error message enhancement of l2_normalize, matmul, mean, etc 

* OP clip, merge_lod_tensor, convert/elementwise error message enhancement. test=develop

* enhance attention_lstm and param_attr error message

* test=develop fix api doc error

fix compile problem on windows and some invalid argument check, cherry pick from #23831, test=release/2.0 (#23870)

Fix the compile problem on windows, cherry-pick from develop branch 

eagerly release cuda resources before cuda enviroment destroying
test=develop

* correct reader device index, test=develop

* fix async executor scope var initialization, test=release/2.0

add new tensor: max,min,t,eye,log1p; test=develop

Those ops add the kernel message enhancement, as follows
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_add	
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_div
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_floordiv
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_max	
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_min	
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_mod	
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_mul	
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_pow	
paddle.fluid.layers.elementwise_sub

* Fix elementwise compile error, test=develop

* split inplace_abn & batch_norm InferShape. test=develop

* fix type. test=develop

* fix message. test=develop

* fix ENFORCE. test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nzhaoyuchen <zhaoyuchen01@baidu.com>

* api compild program error polish, test=develop

* fix coverage problem, test=develop

* fix details & add unittests, test=develop

* add test for coverage, test=develop

* Add the support of bool list for assign value, test=develop
* Fix the assign op test case for bool dtype, test=develop

* Add new norm api, support frobenius norm and p-order vector norm. test==develop
* combine test files, add more attr checks. test=develop