* remove tensor copy in the update_loss_scaling op

* not use thrust.

* fix some cuda memory access error.

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows CPU.

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows GPU, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Add option in windows ci script, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Optimize parallel compiling, test=develop

* remove limit of parallel compile and skip some ops in UB, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* fix test_eye_op unittest failed, test=develop

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Linux, test=develop

* set default WITH_UNITY_BUILD=OFF, test=develop

* Move unity build rules into a single file and add comment, test=develop

* optimize parallel compilation, test=develop

* fix undefined reference error on coverage ci, test=develop

Update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op and add an updating_loss_scaling op for static graph amp training. (#26240)

* update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op for static_amp.

* use amp_check_finite_and_scale in static graph amp.

* update grads to zero when grads own infinite values(as for amp_checkout_finite_and_scale op).

* add update_loss_scaling op in cpp.

* add update_loss_scaling_op unit test.

* update the doc of the check_finite_and_unscale op

* Update the process of gradients updating skipping if the gradients have infinite values.

* update the way to zero grads.

* update test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* add log info when find infinite grads.

* add the unit test for UpdateLossScaling Layer.

* add auto_cast, test=develop

* add loss scaler, test=develop

* add comments, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* do not set flags automatically, test=develop

* fix custom op bug, test=develop

* add more test, test=develop

* refine enable logic, test=develop

* enable amp test with GPU, test=develop

* add unittest

* add test for found_inf

* follow comments

* follow comments

* remove global variable, use singleton

* add some notes

* update comments

* update comments

* update comments

* add use_dynamic_loss_scaling argument

* refine found_inf

* refine found_inf

* refine isfinite, test=develop

* use namespace std of isfinite, test=develop, test=win_gpu

* add amp_check_finite_and_scale op, test=develop

* add cpu kernel, test=develop

* use bool, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop