1 update xccl lib
2 when using comm_ctx, the allocator should be set manually.

* support elementwise base func

* fix compiling error and add test

* remove additional param

* support vjp for div using comp

* remove additional change

* fix dy2st error with magic num

* fix dy magic num

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* add more test

* fix windows problem

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* fix windows compile

* invoke ci

* add skip rename strategy

* support add vjp

* fix test_tanh

* support add with new axis cal

* fix resnet and some test

* add composite log

* support sub vjp

* enhance_tests

* support more dtype for full

* add fmha_flashattention oss plugin

* update trt engine to set in/out data type

* update

* Update engine.cc

* Update engine.cc

* update

* set engine output type before freeze the network

* update

* update trt autoscan ut

* update

* update ut

* fix equal bug, update ut

* fix cast and equal ut

* update cast ut using TRT < 8.4

* set datatype from scope

* check output var is nullptr

* Update op_converter.h

* update tensorrt_engine_op_test ut

* update

* clear ProcessGroupCustom manually

* fix bug

* fix bug

* move destroy ProcessGroup to ProcessGroupIdMap

* enable destroy to all device

* remove unused comments

* change to internal api

* Update process_group.cc

* Update process_group.cc

* update get_device to custom

* add custom_device api

* rm is_compiled_with_custom_device from framework

* add todo comments

* support elementwise base func

* fix compiling error and add test

* remove additional param

* support vjp for div using comp

* remove additional change

* fix dy2st error with magic num

* fix dy magic num

* another magic

* another magic

* add more test

* fix windows problem

* another magic

* fix windows compile

* invoke ci

* add skip rename strategy

* support add vjp

* fix test_tanh

* support add with new axis cal

* fix resnet and some test

* add composite log

* support sub vjp

* kunlun add support for c_concat and c_split

* replace mutable_data() and ShareDataWith()

* generate static graph code of stack, unbind, unique_consecutive op

* fix bug

* [cpplint fix] under ps

* refactor: migrate comm checks

* refactor: add check in comm context

* feat: add gloo static check

* refactor: add place param in static check

* Fix reduce func bug in process_group_bkcl

Also catch up with a recent process_group PR that failed to add XPU branch.
Note that reduce is still accomplished by allreduce for xpu. Fix this should
xccl lib be updated.

* fix compile issue for non-XPU

* compile fix

* fix compile

* compile fix

* add more preln

* rename kernel

* delete sig

* modify code according comment

* fix ci bugs

* fix paddle_infer_contrib include

* compile fix

* fix compile

* compile fix

* refactor: gloo comm context migration

* fix: headers & avoid mutable_data usage

* fix: cmake gloo dep

* style: rename funcs

* refactor: move to new files

* fix: gloo deps

* refactor: simplify create device

* try sequence_padding

* fix cant use mutable_data

* fix mistake fluid_sequence_scale.hh/CMakeLists.t include

* fix namespace bug

* fix framework::ToAbsOffset not found

* fix codestyle

* fix graph_brpc_server.h code style
* fix ps_local_client.h
* fix ps_local_client.cc

* gn bug fix

* bug fix

* gn bug fix