* Add generalized Conv+Activation MKLDNN fuse pass creation Part2
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* Undefined behaviour of GetAttrIfExists<> FIX
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* fix mask rcnn bug:
1. affine channel fuse (diff)
2. condition block op (memory leak)
3. merge lod tensor op (diff)
4. memroy optim (diff)
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* fix ci aboud PADDLE_ENFOCE
fix merge lod infer op ut
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* fix compilation issue in windows vs2017, test=develop

* fix gtest lib not found issue, test=develop

remove the warning for reminding user to avoid using the OriginProgram method, test=develop (#19244)

This log information may annoy users who don't need to care about it.

* fix REGISTER_OP_WITHOUT_GRADIENT
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* Enhance the error message when GrapOpMaker is null.
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* Call Proto() instead of directly using proto_ pointer.
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* Rollback to use proto_ directly, because some sepecial grad ops, such some double grad ops, donot have proto.
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Use CUDAPinnedPlace in buffered_reader

* add get_last_save_xbox_base/get_last_save_xbox
* fix fleet_util bug of load paddle model
* add doc string in fleet api

* Add requantize squash

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* Add more precise tests
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* REname and REfactor tester

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Polish fleet API to support cuda collective mode and nccl2 mode

add save cache model api in fleet& add slots shuffle in dataset module & add metric op to calculate ctr related metrics (#18871)

* add ctr related metric layer test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* fix error

* fix error

* fix style for ci

* fix for comments

* change SlotsShuffle input to std::strinf for generality

* fix style

* fix style

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* fix stylr

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* change non-const reference to pointer

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix style  test=develop

* add return ins num in ctr metric op

* change dtype to float in metric_op.py

* fix error test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix API spec

* fix API spec

* fix API spec test=develop

* add UT test=develop

* add a place field in DataFeed to denote which place it will feed data to.
* abstract the copy process in CopyToFeedTensor function
* add UT for float32 type and for CUDAPlace

* Enhance fuse optimization op pass
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* Add call stack info during runtime and compile time
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* Rename operator_call_stack
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* Add unit test
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* follow comment
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* fix QueueDataset queue size，set queue size = batch size * 100, to avoid too many instances in channel when training is much slower than reading data.

* fix memory overlapping of fetch var (return of executor.run), test=develop

* fix wrong usage of ParallelExecutor in op_test, test=develop

* remove useless parameter and simplify code

* avoid tensor destruct untimely, test=develop

* add testcase independent of OpTest, test=develop

* open gc by default, test=develop

* fix test_train_recognize_digits and disable gc when ngraph is enabled, test=develop

* fix conditional_block op eager deletion bug, test=develop

* add some comments to reviewers, test=develop

* support filelist size < trainer num
* pull dense when stop, to make sure local dense params are same as pserver, so save paddle model will save dense model same as pserver
*  enable QueueDataset train same filelist for serveral times

* Disable fuse optimization
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* add fusion_seqpool_cvm_concat test=develop

* simplify pass, test=develop

* fix code style, test=develop

adjust ins weight according to nid slot , user can specify adjust_ins_weight in strategy

Revert "use static variable to do cache instead of thread local in thread frequent switching case (#18428)" (#18879)

This reverts commit ce38bb53.

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* remove legacy memory optimization codes, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* follow luotao's comments, test=develop

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* code style

* code style

* code style

* style

* add delete after unseen days

* add unseen days

* code style

* conflict solve
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* add clear model

* code style
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* code style
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* open fuse optimization ops
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* first version memory optimize pass, test=develop

* remove move_tensor_sharing_pass, test=develop

* refine code comments, add unittests, test=develop

* turn off memory_optimize by default, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments, test=develop

* fix grammar error, add const qualifier, fix pass_test exception message, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments 2nd, test=develop

Fix FleetWrapper:
1. fix shrink dense: just scale show
2. add datanorm scale: divide datanorm's gradient by batch_size

* update paddle-trt for:
    1. fix bug: when batch > 2, core in split plugin.
    2. add leaky_relu trt5.0 support (yolov3 from 65ms to 42ms.)
    3. add new attr to dropout.
    4. shuffle channel, swish, relu6 support
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* 1. fix ci
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The change includes 2 things:

1. save delta model and shrink table are control by the same parameter before, now add delete_after_unseen_days to control shrink table.
2. value in sparse table has no slot before, now add slot in sparse table, and add DownpureCtrAccessor to support the new meta.
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（1）support patch data （merge slots of instances of same line id, modify dense layer which
changes its size）
（2）add fleet load_one_table interface, support load from paddle model and load from pslib model
（3）fix push sparse bug which cause push sparse cost more time（about 10% in my testcase）
（4）when some slots are not in one of your network (join/update, etc.)，data feed、collect label info、push/pull sparse will skip these slots， instead of throw error.
（5）add more debug info in TrainFilesWithProfiler

* support sparse gradients
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Test PaddingRNN on V100 GPU device.

Test configuration: large model, padding mode (which is the mode using recurrentOp), one GPU.
                   
GPU memory (MiB):   6414 (this PR)     vs   6837 (without this PR)
Speed (steps/s):         10.28 (this PR)    vs    9.89 (without this PR)
 

* feature/auto_growth_allocator, test=develop

* add unittest of AlignedAllocator, test=develop

* try to turn on auto_growth to test on CI, test=develop

* fix segmentation fault in mixed_vector.h, test=develop

* add unittests, test=develop

* remove async executor and add data_feed.proto to the deps of train demo