* support bmm and bmm_grad in xpu

* add error removal

* test=kunlun

* refactor code for better structure

* test=kunlun

* add fp16 kernel for bmm

* test=kunlun

Migrate scale and scatter to phi, and modify the code style for roi_align_kernel. test=kunlun (#45938)

* support bfloat16 for amp_decorate

* add check_finite for bf16

* fix bug

* add ut

* add ut

* refine code

* fix arm fp16 compile error

* polish macro impl

* normalize yaml op label

* revert op_compat yaml change

* fix prelu and rnn compat problem

* replace api by op

* clear extra attr of activation op in opmaker

* fix syntax bug

* fix mkldnn kernel

* fix merge conflict

* fix bug

* add softmax infer kernel

paddle::platform::CudaAtomicAdd
https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/issues/45881

* fix softmax int64

* follow comments

* fix split bug in static mode

* modify code style

* modify code style

* add unit test for split

* add operator<< for BuildStrategy

* add fake_coalesce

* fit allreduce mode for new_exe

* remove dubeg code

* follow comments

* migrate load kernel

* remove load op

* fix test failed

* add fusion dir and fuse_softmax_mask kernel

* remove fusion kernel dir

* migrate infershape

* fix code errror

* modify slice infershape

* code style

* modify slice_unittest

* simplify size op

* trans to cuda manuly

* fix copy error

* gaussian random

* mkldnn to onednn renaming

* fix merge conflicts

* remove fluid code

* onednn renaming

* Move classes from mkldnn_reuse.h to onednn_reuse.h

* Migrate pool+grad, clip+grad and cast oneDNN kernels to PHI

* Refactor grad kernels into separate files

* Fix CI failures

* Fix Codestyle

* Implement reviewer suggestions

* Add new lines after includes for readability
Co-authored-by: NSilv3S <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* add save kernel

* add save_sr_kernel

* remove original save_op

* add save gpu kernel

* remove combine kernel

* add port.h include

* add save selected rows test

* remove useless kernel.h

* [XPU] update xdnn to 0906. test=kunlun

* [XPU] update xdnn to 0907. test=kunlun

* fix infermeta bug for vector input and output

* add unittest