[Cherry-pick 2.0] Error message enhancement of conv2d_fusion and bugfix related to control nodes detecttion in fusion_group (#23985)

* Op(conv2d_fusion) error message enhancement. (#23596)
* Fix the error misjudgment when there are control nodes in graph. (#23943)

* delete invalid check inferface Ref & VectorRef, test=develop

* fix vector ref delete error, test=develop

* try the new check inferface, test=develop

* change all related code with new check macro, test=develop

* remove static assert, test=develop

* polish detail, test=develop

* skip coverage problem, test=develop

* add new check macro, test=develop

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* add_dygraph_execution_context

* add dygraph infershape context and execution context; test=develop

* fix imperative bug; test=develop

* remove inputs outputs interface from execution context,
because it have same function with inputNames;
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* remove tracer_test ctest; test=develop

* fix split op bug; test=develop

* fix unitests bug; test=develop

* fix distribute test bug; test=develop

* fix ngraph compile bug; test=develop

* fix grad maker bug; test=develop

* fix load op bugs; test=develop

* fix operator.cc construct bug; test=develop

* remove useless name find in operator; test=develop

* add tracer_test; test=develop

* fix concat, split bug; test=develop

* remove tracer_test unitest; test=develop

* fix attribute check bug; test=develop

* add test code to fix converage; test=develop

* remove useless code, change check backward input in engin; test=develop

* unlock var type infer shape;test=develop

* add ShareAllLoD api; test=develop

* add dygraph infershape context unitest; test=develop

* remove increase and decrease lod in dygraph; test=develop

* addd override; test=develop

* fix increase descrease lod; test=develop

* fix paddle_enforce; test=develop

* disable lod op dygraph check; test=develop

* fix paddle enforce error; test=develop

* add comment for op_registry and OperatorBase; test=develop

* optimize the comment of op_registry; test=develop

* fix format of comment; test=develop

* fix format of comment; test=develop

* optimize the format of comment; test=develop

* optimize the format of the comment; test=develop

* optimize comment of op_registry; test=develop

* remove -Wno-error=sign-compare, make warning as error

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* fix exist compile warning

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fix bug in pool/conv/conv_transpose: UpdatePaddingAndDilation, _get_padding_with_SAME and conv2dtranspose_forward_naive. (#20997)

* fix bug in pool/conv/conv_transpose:
1. It should be stride[i] not stride[0] in UpdatePaddingAndDilation;
2. fix bug of func  _get_padding_with_SAME in test_conv/conv_transpose_op.py;
3. fix bug of the computation process in function conv2dtranspose_forward_naive.
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* change test to make the data of different dimensions different. test=develop

* fix_conv_grad_grad

* fix_bug, test=develop

1.support asymmetric padding;
    2.support padding algorithm:"SAME" and "VALID";
    3.support channel_last: data_format NHWC and NDHWC;
    4.change doc of python API and c++;

    test=develop, test=document_preview

* cpu conv_grad_grad

* Add conv2d_grad_grad_op
* Extracte the cuDNN conv algo searching code in conv_cudnn_helper.h.
    - Now use it in conv2d_grad_grad.
    - Will simply the searching code in conv2d and conv2d_grad in next PR.
* Enhance and fix bug in unit testing of gradient_checker.
* Support to fetch empty variables，return None in Python.

* mem opt

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* refine code  test=develop

* refine code  test=develop

* refine code  test=develop

* refine code  test=develop

* refine with cub test=develop

* fix mkldnn test && remove comments && test=develop

* polish code && test=develop

* add only_forward test && test=develop

* Enable basic MKL-DNN INT8 Conv OP
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* Modify test case
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* Clean unittest code
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* Fix test
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* Modify test
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* Modify basic INT8 Conv
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* refine tensor
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* refine tensor
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* fix device_context log
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* Add Temporal Allocator

* add Temporay Allocator to DeviceContext
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* code refine
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* fix mean_iou
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* Add DeviceTemporaryAllocator
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* fix conv_op bug
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* small fix
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* code refine
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* log refine
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* fix unit test
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* move double check

* refine concat_and_split
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* add limit_of_temporary_allocation
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* fix name
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* Convolution fusion operator.
* Clean code
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* refine reduce by cub
* optimize KernelDepthwiseConvFilterGrad
* optimize depthwise conv and reduce mean and reduce sum
* fix bug: dilation
* cuda arch and cuda 8 compatible

Do not use ctor

* Reduce line of codes.
* We can use virtual function for Maker now.
* The implementation does not care what maker holds, it is easier to
refactor later.

* Fix conv_op.h

* Fix conv_mkldnn_op

* Fix cpplint issues in detection_map_op

* "unified operators"

* "add CUDNN register"

* "add use cudnn attribute"

* "add attribute"

* "test conv tranpose op"

* "remove duplicated attr"

* "fix op test"

* "add attribute to set cudnn"

* "add more log"

* "need layout op register support"

* "add more log"

* "change GetExpectedKernelType "

* "fix Get attr in conv_op"

* "fix CI"

* "fix tests"

* "removed kernel priority fallback"

* "fix CI"

* "fix stack pointer bug"

* "refine buggy interface"

* "add const cast to save life"

* "fix get_output_with_grad"

* "fix op test with dataformat"

* ""fix pooling

* "fix pooling test"

* "fix CI"

* "fix with_gpu error"

* "add transform needed functional check"

* "fix unpack list error"

* "comment out parallel.do temporary"

* "fix CI"

* "fix compile doc error"

* "make threshold larger"