Add basic Cost Model, it uses executor to run program and profile it to get op time.

This is an early basic version, we will add more functions in the future.

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

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* Revert "Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy" (#16022)"

This reverts commit e2da3a5b.

* use default stream
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* Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy (#15953)"

This reverts commit 7235fd66.
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* fix CI
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Add Event for TensorCopy 

* Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy (#15953)"

This reverts commit 7235fd66.
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* fix CI
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Add Event for TensorCopy 

* refile profiler
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* follow comment
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* refine profiler && add runtime tracer

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* fix bug && test=develop

* add thread id map && test=develop

* test=develop

* testing

* bug fix

* remove cuda event && refine code && test=develop

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* fix windows temp file && test=develop

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* fix windows bug && test=develop

* fix start up issue && test=develop

* code polish &&  test=develop

* remove unused code && test=develop

* add some cupti cbid && test=develop

* add FLAGS_multiple_of_cupti_buffer_size && test=develop

* fix compile error && test=develop

* add keyword && test=develop

* fix && test=develop

* code polish && test=develop

Fix the bug that profiler cannot trace the nccl allreduce operator

* add recordio support

* disable the openblas multi-thread on windows since no support
adjust the python script

* code style

* code style
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* add create_recordio_file_reader back

* fix code style
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* fix the gtest.cmake on windows

* fix cc_test on windows

* fix the win build
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* remove fused compile support on windows
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* add the jit support
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* add the jit support, test=develop

* add the jit support, test=develop

* add the jit back
fix compile error on windows

* rollback test=develop

* test case fix

* disable DSO by default on windows

* exclude warpctc_op on windows

* exclude the dynload_warpctc out on windows
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* fix the scripts error
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* disable avx on windows by default
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* re-organize the cmake file

* disable mkl on windows by default

* add warp_ctc back

* fix the dependency

* fix the dependency

* fix the build issue on windows

* remove unsupported flag on windows

* code style

* code style
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* fix issue

* add profiler, parallel_executor back

* clean up the pre-definitions on windows

* fix build issue

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* platform module

* Update profiler.h

Add a few more RecordEvent.
Cleanup