faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11 (#22164)

* fix compile error when WITH_PSLIB=ON
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TemporaryAllocator is a singleton used for allocating memory for Cudnn. Since it is a singleton, we can delete it for better performance in memory.

We replace TemporaryAllocator by CUDADeviceContextAllocator and CUDADeviceContextAllocation, which uses stream callback to delete the memory allocated for the stream to avoid singleton.

Also added data_feed_proto to operator to fix CI in CPU compilation

2）add pip install coverage in Dockerfile.tmp
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* add WITH_COVERAGE option, default OFF

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* add coverage for python sdk

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* fix code style

* fix COVERAGE_FILE path

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* remove coverage package

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* test = develop, run coverage as module

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* reuse C-API INT8 unit test application

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* updates after review

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* fuse mul and elementwise add to fc

* Reimplement the FC forward operator

* Fix FC MKLDNN integration by transposing weights

* Add FC MKLDNN Pass

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* FC MKLDNN Pass: change memcpy to std::copy

* Fix MKLDNN FC handling of mismatch input and weights dims

* Lower tolerance for MKL-DNN in resnet50 test

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* Adjust FC to support MKLDNN Op placement

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* Adjust Placement Op to set use_mkldnn attribute for graph

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* MKLDNN FC: fix weights format so that gemm version is called

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* FC MKLDNN: Remove tolerance decrease from tester_helper

* FC MKL-DNN: Refactor the code, change input reorder to weight reorder

* MKL-DNN FC: Introduce operator caching

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* FC MKL-DNN: Fix the tensor type in ExpectedKernelType

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* FC MKL-DNN: fix style changes

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* FC MKL-DNN: fallback to native on non-supported dim sizes

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* FC MKLDNN: fix CMake paths

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* FC MKLDNN: Refine placement pass graph mkldnn attribute

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* Fix Transpiler error for fuse_conv_eltwise

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* Fix missing STL includes in files

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* FC MKL-DNN: Enable new output size computation

Also, refine pass to comply with newest interface.
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* FC MKL-DNN: enable only when fc_mkldnn_pass is enabled

* FC MKL-DNN: Allow Weights to use oi or io format

* FC MKL-DNN: Adjust UT to work with correct dims

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* Enable MKL DEBUG for resnet50 analyzer

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* FC MKL-DNN: Improve Hashing function

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* FC MKL-DNN: Fix shape for fc weights in transpiler

* FC MKL-DNN: Update input pointer in re-used fc primitive

* Add log for not handling fc fuse for unsupported dims

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* FC MKL-DNN: Move transpose from pass to Op Kernel

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* FC MKL-DNN: Disable transpose in unit test

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* FC MKL-DNN: Remove fc_mkldnn_pass from default list

* Correct Flag for fake data analyzer tests

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* FC MKL-DNN: Add comment about fc mkldnn pass disablement

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* FC MKL-DNN: Disable fc in int8 tests

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* fix the random compilation failure on windows 

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This reverts commit c38c7c56.

* link the libwbaes.so into paddle

* polish detail, test=develop

* try fix mac_pr_ci error, test=develop

* add compile option, test=develop

* fix ci error, test=develop

* ignore failed to find mac lib, test=develop

* change cdn to bj, cdn can't get the latest version

* trigger ci, test=develop

* temporary delete win32 lib linking, test=develop

* change https to http, test=develop

* turn compile option on to off

* turn compile option off to on, test=develop

* try lib compiled by gcc4.8, test=develop

* update lib version, test=develop

* link other lib, test=develop

* add setup config

* delete false, test=develop

* delete no_soname, test=develop

* recover so name set

* fix, test=develop

* adjust make config, test=develop

* remove link to wbaes, test=develop

* remove useless define, test=develop

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* fix mac cmake version 3.13 test=develop

* fix again test=develop

* Simplify the compare op for CPU.

* Use asynchronous tensor copy in reshape_op's kernel.

* Optimize while_op for test, avoiding creating variables every time.
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* Enable the cache of kernel type and kernel function.
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* Enable profiling with gperftools.

* Remove flags for testing, and fix the linking error.
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* Delete the codes of ChooseKernel.
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* Fix bug when preparing ExecutorPrepareContext for while_op.

* Fix missing depending on grpc libraries.

* Remove the redundant print.
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* Follow comments.

* Remove the codes related to prepare the ExecutorPrepareContext for while_op.
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* HIP cmake.
Enable whole archieve build for pybind library.

Disable two warning.

Rollback to C++11.

Link RCCL to WA gpu kernel loading issue.

Update eigen to fix build failure.

Add more include directories.

Fix O3 build failure.

Update eigen.

fix tensor_util_test segment fault issue

add more macro check in hip.cmake.
we may consider refine hip.cmake to inherit all add_definitions() in parrent scope, in the future.

Fix rocRAND load.

Update eigen to fix gru_unit_op and reduce_op.

Add HIP support to testing.

Update eigen to support int16 and int8 in arg min and arg max.

* add rocprim as cub library used by nv implementation

* Reduce build time in rocprim.

* Add rocprim introduction, remove useless cmake code.

* Remove useless flags and format cmake file.

* add recordio support

* disable the openblas multi-thread on windows since no support
adjust the python script

* code style

* code style
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* add create_recordio_file_reader back

* fix code style
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* fix the gtest.cmake on windows

* fix cc_test on windows

* fix the win build
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* remove fused compile support on windows
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* add the jit support
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* add the jit support, test=develop

* add the jit support, test=develop

* add the jit back
fix compile error on windows

* rollback test=develop

* test case fix

* disable DSO by default on windows

* exclude warpctc_op on windows

* exclude the dynload_warpctc out on windows
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* fix the scripts error
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* disable avx on windows by default
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* re-organize the cmake file

* disable mkl on windows by default

* add warp_ctc back

* fix the dependency

* fix the dependency

* fix the build issue on windows

* remove unsupported flag on windows

* code style

* code style
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* fix issue

* add profiler, parallel_executor back

* clean up the pre-definitions on windows

* fix build issue

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