* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* unify calling cudaSetDevice

* fix compile

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

* rename sendrecv.proto to namespace paddle.distributed

* split ps with distributed

* feat: support check_nan_inf for kunlun device

* support kunlun stack

* minor

* oneps (3/4)
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* hot fix complle failed in gcc4.8

* fix failed unittest

* add complex64 and complex128 type; add +-*/@ and slice opreator for complex types

* add test cases for complex elementwise, matmul and getitem unittest

* add test cases for complex types

* add test cases for complex matmul unittest

* add fuse_bn_add_act pass

* fix bug of fetch_async_op_handle

* revert some changes of test_buffer_shared_memory_reuse_pass

* revert some changes of test_buffer_shared_memory_reuse_pass

* refine broadcast_op_handle

* refine some error messages

* refine some files

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* follow comments

* follow comments

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* support use add instead of sum to do gradient accumulation

* add inplace addto pass

* add grad_add op and inplace addto pass

* remove debug code

* code refine

* fix bug when sereral sum ops inserts at same op_idx

* fix Flags type

* add addto attribute for conv3d

* fix ut

* code clean

* fix type

* refine error msg in var_handle.h, test=develop

* refine all_reduce_op_handle

* fix some error msg

* refine variable_visitor

* refine threaded_ssa_graph_executor

* refine inplace related files

* refine executor related files

* refine fetch_op_handle.cc

* fix bug

* follow comments

* optimized transformation form tensor to numpy, test=develop

* Modify fetch op handle, from memcpy Sync to memcpy Async, test=develop

* modify CUDAPinnedPlace to CPUPlace, test=develop

* modify CPUPlace to CUDAPinnedPlace, and set default inplace to false, test=develop

* revert fetch_op_handle, add fetch_async_op_handle, test=develop

* revert fetch_op_handle, add fetch_async_op_handle, test=develop

* fix error msg report, test=develop

* fix bug in cpuplace, test=develop

* fix bug in unmerge and tensorarray modle, test=develop

* fix bug, double copy gpu memory, test=develop

* fix chenweihang¡¯s review advice, test=develop

* optimized transformation form tensor to numpy, test=develop

* optimized transformation form tensor to numpy, pass pre-commit, test=develop

* modify fetchophandle zerocopy to deepcopy in PE&CUP, test=develop

* modify py:array construct, test=develop

* fix _fetch_var to use deep copy, test=develop

* fix large scale KV 
* fix single training using async ssa graph

Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server

* polish pe exception process logic, test=develop

* fix unittest, test=develop

* add unittests, test=develop

* cat bad alloc exception; test=develop

* add unitest; test=develop

* move bad alloc catch to the first place; test=develop

* polish error message; test=develop

* polish error message; test=develop

* add mutex header; test=develop

* remove REPLACE_ENFORCE_GLOG compile option & add ci rule prohibit LOG(FATAL) using, test=develop

* remove ci test case, test=develop

* replace all LOG(FATAL) & polish message, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* polish error info detail, test=develop

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* Optimize the error messages of paddle CUDA API, test=develop

* fix the error messages of paddle CUDA API, test=develop

* Refactoring PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS, and apply to curand/cudnn/cublas/NCCL,test=develop

* remove build_ex_string,test=develop

* merge conflict,test=develop

* Support LoDTEnsorArray in fetch op

test=develop

* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

test=develop

* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

test=develop

* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

test=develop

* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

test=develop

* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

test=develop

* correct reader device index, test=develop

* fix async executor scope var initialization, test=develop