Performance optimization for dynamic setitem: Call op set_value to speed up because the original call to TensorToPyArray will introduce unnecessary data copy. (#30817)

* Additionally change to not throw error from inside pass.

* Update Xbyak and add bf16 fast performance verification

* Fix formating

* Change LOG message

* Trigger an update of a new tag

* fix split trt plugin initialize

* update

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

fix the broadcast for the large second input 

* try again if kunlun memory malloc failed

* minor

* support xpu inference with analysis predictor, test=develop

* merge the cmake of the xpu toolchain, test=develop

* add c-apis, test=develop

* fix a bug in extern_xpu, test=develop

* fix trt plugin clone and initialize bugs

* fix unit test error

* enable trt in ci py3

* update unittest timeout

* update lite tag

* disable ut

* dump to cpu

* format

* format

* format

fix push sparse int64 bug

* fix malloc L3 failed bug for kunlun

* minor

* [ROCM] update fluid platform for rocm35 (part1), test=develop

* address review comments, test=develop

* solve python3 incompatibility issues

* update checksum

* fix Brpc get hostname

* transformer predict

* trans bug fix

* added external reorder to profiler

* resolved conflict

* added enable_static

* initial version of lstm, not working yet

* added lstm to operators.cmake

* added vanilla lstm mkldnn op

* added peephole weights integration

* minor changes

* added formatting

* added fusion_lstm_mkldnn to static_whitelist

* added formatting

* removed comment

* moved use_peepholes attribute inside is_cached block

* reverted wrong changes

* minor formatting change

* minor changes

* changed stream handling

* minor change

* added datatype to GetExpectedKernelType()

* added reading stream from TLS