* cherry-pick,Optimize the error messages of paddle CUDA API

* fix the error messages of paddle CUDA API

* Refactoring PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS, and apply to curand/cudnn/cublas/NCCL

* remove build_ex_string

* add bn and relu fuse pass

* add op attr assert and dtype assert

* fix some inputs&&outputs bugs for the fused op and pattern.

* add the unittest for fuse_bn_act_pass. test=develop

* use normative enforce statements. test=develop

* add the cpu test. test=develop

* add the support of batch_size=1 for the bn with relu op. test=develop

* add the error type for paddle throws. test=develop

* add fused_batch_norm_act and fused_batch_norm_act_grad to op_has_unsed_vars_white_list. test=develop