* [XPUPS]add support for kunlun2 (#40985)


[XPUPS]add support for kunlun2
Co-authored-by: NWorgenZhang <frank08081993@gmail.com>

* [XPUPS]fix hashtable_kernel.kps (#41790)

* refactor heter comm kernel

* update. test=develop

* update calc_shard_offset. test=develop

* update xpu kernel. test=develop

* update args of calc_shard_offset

* update. test=develop

* remove customGradMerger

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update optimizer kernel

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

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* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* add optimizer kernel. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix kunlun not support size_t. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* update hashtable. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

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* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* template init. test=develop

* hashtable template init. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=devlop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

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* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix hashtable_kernel. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop
Co-authored-by: NWorgenZhang <frank08081993@gmail.com>

* [XPUPS]modify xpu_kp.cmake with HETERPS&PSLIB (#41760)

* modify xpu_kp.cmake with HETERPS&PSLIB

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop
Co-authored-by: NWorgenZhang <frank08081993@gmail.com>

* split reduce_kernel

* rm reduce_kernel in cmake

* split reduce_grad kernels

* fix cmake build error

* format code

* fix standalone_executor_test error

* [Phi&CustomOp] Remove deprecated enum PlaceType for custom op & add warning (#41647)

* remove old custom op placetype

* replace dist  placetype using

* add with gpu macro

* fix mutable_data error

* fix set value error

* add comment

* remove all is initialized using (#41766)

* remove inner_place using (#41768)

* polish tensor depreacted method warning (#41807)

* [CustomOp] Fix PlaceType related compat error (#41826)

* fix place type related compat error

* fix test failed

* remove dll decl

* revert place type change

* add dll decl

* resolve conflict

* fix data transform problem for cudnn backend (#41622)

* Fix problem of infermeta with vector output (#41646)

* remove stack_grad infershape

* fix bug of output with null

* fix bug

* the one ps proto (#41659)

* the one ps proto

* the one ps proto

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix windows ci

* fix windows ci

* add dependency

* add dependency

* fix bug of ps_py_proto cant find path for the folder not created (#41793)
Co-authored-by: NSing_chan <51314274+betterpig@users.noreply.github.com>

* add new method for custom double grad

* add tanh double grad unittest

* change year

* revert tensor init method

* Revert "[Phi] Migrate Adam and AdamW into Phi (#40351)"

This reverts commit 56cd3407.

* add infermeta

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix fleet bind

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix gpups wrapper

* remove Push/Pull/Load/Save with context in client and wrapper base class

* fix

* fix

* remove some interface

* fix

* remove

* code style

* recover

* fix

* remove code unused

* remove some unused table & accessor & CommonDenseTable => MemoryDenseTable

* fix

* fix

* fix

* recover

* remove unused code

* recover unittest

* fix

* remove

* fix

* remove code unuseful

* remove

* fix

* recover

* remove
Co-authored-by: Nesythan <esythan@126.com>
Co-authored-by: Nesythan <esythan@126.com>

fix bug when TruncatedNormal cannot fall back in cpu

* fix bug that no thread is waked up when adding task to threadpool

* fix typo

* remove paddle_ipu shared library

* fix unique_name

* fix bug of data transform in inference executor

* fix bug

* enable new executor by default

* enable stream safe allocator

* test=document_fix;test=coverage

* do not use scope in op kernel

* fit empty program for new executor

* fix communication depend

* fix test_sync_batch_norm

* skip unsupported place

* refine datatransfer

* fit for dirtributed program

* fix dependencpy

* fix some ut

* DRY

* change nodes names

* add const prefix

* change asX to as_x in all files

* add dropout slice yaml

* remove useless code

* fix infer shape error

* skip infrt compile for dropout

* add concat_grad kernel

* fix error

* remove comment code

* fix outs nullptr error

* change to phi header

* add concat_grad declare for standalone_executor_test

* paddle inference support new quant_model

* [KP] fix bug in phi static graph mode

* modify the useless code

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix fleet bind

* update name

* update name

* fix test

* fix gpups wrapper

* remove Push/Pull/Load/Save with context in client and wrapper base class

* fix

* fix
Co-authored-by: Nesythan <esythan@126.com>

* fix mac c++ version

* update

* fix apple systems

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error

* add interploate cpu kernel

* fix nullptr bug

* add interpolate gpu kernel

* fix unit test error

* remove raw kernels

* add cuda kernel impl

* add infermeta

* recover accidentally deleted kernels in interpolate op

* fix grad x_grad name error

* remove interpolate_v2_op.h

* rm unused codes

* fix xpu build error

* fix build error

* fix namespace error

* add register header for nup

* fix infermeta error

* modify by review

* add the missing args in test_trt_convert_nearest_interp_v2

* fix cmake. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix dep for graphs_ps_gpu. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* move WaitEvent/RecordEvent into try-catch

* refine supportNpu

* back fl

* delete ssl cert

* .

* make warning

* .

* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

* .

* .

* rename scalar_array to int_array

* update cmake

* fix conflict

* remove useless log

* fix bug that some op has no op_role attr

* add mkldnn support for new executor

* fit for mkldnn data_transfer

* fit for mkldnn data_transfer

* no

* maintain old profiler

* exclude new python record events for old profiler

* maintain old profiler

* maintain

* maintain old profiler

* maintain

* fix cmakes

* add flatten2,reshape2,squueze2_trt_fuse_pass  test cast

* add flatten2,reshape2,squueze2_trt_fuse_pass  test cast

* add flatten2,reshape2,squueze2_trt_fuse_pass  test cast

* mv yolov3_loss op to phi

* fix as review

* update operator.h

* fix load bug and add distributed strategy from pslib

* add unittest

* use cvm config

* trainer and worker config

* add unittest

* add unittest

* add test

* code style

* fix dependency of fused optimizer

* add ut

This reverts commit 05f3d48e.

* fix pad3d infermeta bug

* add check for construct ScalarArray