* 1. add embedding eltwise layernorm fuse
2. add embedding eltwise layernorm op
3. refine inplace_add_relu
4. refine fc_eltwise_layernorm
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* 1. refine fc
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* fix comments
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* fix comments

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* change the ci trt from version 5. to 6.0

* paddle-trt dynamic shape support init

* conv+bias or conv+bn dynamic shape support
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* modity trt engine opconvert
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* fix ci error
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* encapsulate the PaddleTensorToLoDTensor, test=develop

* serialize the pd_tensor, test=develop

* serialize tensors to file, test=develop

* change the function in op_teller, test=develop

* correct the commit-id, test=develop

* fix inference c api lod, test=develop

* fix capi lod problem and enrich tests, test=develop

* delete useless header files and alter const_cast, test=develop

* refine pointer and c-api prototype, test=develop

* fix new c api profile bug, test=develop

* add unit tests, test=develop

* Add an interface of disabling FC padding
* fix bert regression
* polish fc padding interface
* recover pass function
* fix argument error
* fix mkldnn error

* support  golang inference

* 1. optim multihead matmul: fuse three fc to multihtead matmul

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* fix conflict
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* fix comments
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* a test for Ernie QAT INT8 accuracy check

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* Remove NLP comparison test to split PRs

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* Fix typo and tabs, delete commented lines

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* re-combine the 2 PRs, test=develop
Co-authored-by: NMichał Gallus <sand3r@interia.eu>
Co-authored-by: Nbingyanghuang <33643817+bingyanghuang@users.noreply.github.com>

[Refine Paddle-TRT INT8]: Support PaddleSlim's Resnet50, Mobilenetv1, Yolov3 models for Inference. (#22483)

* add int8 op teller for trt.

* refine trt int8

* add int8 op teller for trt.
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* add mutex for trt engine
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* add the test for copy_to_cpu
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* remove the useless third_party library from C++ inference library

* revert removing the install directory

faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11 (#22164)

- fluid和lite精度比较替换为相对误差

- 添加了fluid-lite子图方式运行resnet的单测
- 修改了依赖Lite的git commit id

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* add TRT support for instance_norm op

* add gelu plugin

* align trt bert with gpu

* add support for fused fc with relu,

* add unittest for bert trt

* fix multi-thread error of fc_gru_fuse_pass.cc, test=develop

* export FLAGS and GLOG symbols, test=develop

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* Disable memory opt pass when DNNL is on

* Refine comment above mem optimization pass enablement

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