[CodeStyle][NPU] use np.testing.assert_allclose instead of self.assertTrue(np.allclose(...)) (part 1) (#44988)

* autofix

* try resolve precision issues

* revert some changes

* clean some `err_msg`

* 0.0001 -> 1e-4

* update commented assert code

* try to fix some shape errors

* `numpy` -> `np`

* empty commit, trigger kunlun ci, test=kunlun

* empty commit, retrigger kunlun ci, test=kunlun

* empty commit, trigger kunlun ci, try fix npu memcpy_h2d, test=kunlun

* try fix npu import error, test=kunlun

[CodeStyle] use np.testing.assert_array_equal instead of self.assertTrue(np.array_equal(...)) (#44947)

* automatically fix

* update comments

* numpy -> np

* self.assertEqual(..., True)

* wrong usage (err_msg=True)

这不是修复导致的错误，这些是原来 `self.assertTrue(..., True)`
的错误用法，因此在修复后将其认为位置参数 `err_msg`

* some missing fix

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

This reverts commit 05f3d48e.

This reverts commit e77a947e.

* update

* add forward case

* update

* update; test=develop

* add some grad kernel; test=develop

* move gpu kernel; test=develop

* update

* update;

* update test;

* fix selected rows bug;

* add mix vector include ;

* add mixed vector depen; test=develop

* add logit grad signature;

* polish code

* fix bug;

* add namespace for abs

* revert code

* not move softsign

* revmove duplate register;

* fix softsign bug

* polish code

* format

* format

* fix bug

* remove cmake dep

* add square sqrt selected rows support

* update

* remove clip norm

* add standalone executor sqrt dep

* standalone exec denp sqrt

* remove sqrt op in cmkaelist

* open some case