* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

* Test compilation time with less parallel count, notest, test=windows_ci

* optimize rules of Unity Build, notest, test=windows_ci, test=windows_op

* limit parallel counts used only on GPU, test=develop

* remove limit of argument /m:8 on Windows, test=develop

* fix sgd/momentum/dpsgd/rmsprop error message

test=develop

test=develop

* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

test=develop

* add check for opt op

* fix opt op
test=develop

* fix test fail
test=develop

* fix optimization doc
test=develop

* test=develop

* rmsprop optimizer support v1 mode

* typo

* optimize code

* refine code

* optimize unit test

* update test_rmsprop_op.py

* update formula of rmsprop

* optimize document

* update API.spec for RMSPropOptimizer

* add default value to check_output_with_place equal_nan

There are mainly following fixes:

- take `DeviceContext` as the template parameter of math functors and OpKernel instead of `Place`
- remove `eigen_device` interface in base class  `DeviceContext`
- remove `GetEigenDevice` interface in `ExecutionContext` and base class `DeviceContext`
- remove unused `platform::EigenDeviceConverter`
- rename `REGISTER_OP_GPU_KERNEL` to `REGISTER_OP_CUDA_KERNEL`
- rename `USE_GPU_ONLY_OP` to `USE_CUDA_ONLY_OP`

Fix #3902

* use operator context

* optimize code

* update net infershape

* update InferShape

* disable override InferShape(scope) in OperatorBase

* change InferShapeImpl to InferShape

* add template to OperatorContext Input/Output

* merge Input InputVar, Output OutputVar

* change Inputs to MultiInput

* fix conflict

* fix MultiInput bugs and add unit test

* rename KernelContext to ExecutionContext

* clean code

* change InferShape to protected

* fix template bug

* refine code

* use InputVar instead of Input<Variable>

* typo

* optimize code

Make implement an operator less noisy.

* a simplest SGD op

* add inputs

* add ut for multiple inputs

* fix AddToLayer

* op_desc -> op_proto

* CreateArgumentOffsetMap -> CreateInOutOffsetMap

* move CreateInOutOffsetMap from OperatorBase to op registry

* arg_idxs_ -> in_out_idxs_

* Convert `op` --> `operators`
* Remove AddType in OpProtoMaker, because type is part of registry.
* Rename CPU_OR_GPU --> DEVICE_TYPE in registry macro.