[Unify Tensors PR #1] Replaced pten::Allocation with shared_ptr<memory::Allocation> for Storage (#38301)

* Added shared_ptr<Allocation> member & corresponding interfaces to Storage

* Removed original pten::Allocation from Storage and adjusted the interfaces accordingly

* Fixed issues with storage offset

* Used place to malloc allocation for TensorStorage

* updates the pten allocation, test=develop

* avoids an error message, test=develop