[PHI Decoupling] remove dependency on "paddle/fluid/platform/errors.h" and "paddle/fluid/platform/fast_divmod.h" in phi. (#47815)

* rm "paddle/fluid/platform/errors.h" in phi

* rm "paddle/fluid/platform/fast_divmod.h" in phi

* support cudnn kernel moving

* polish cmake rules

* add unittest for coverage

* remove orig kernel

* remove softmax cudnn kernel

* fix softmax test failed

* fix npu func error

* resolve conflict

* rename gpu dnn kernels

* fix name rule error

* fix compile error

* update fp16 namespace

* change Vector to std::vector and provide MixVector class as a helper wrapper class

* solve the multi-gpu hang problem

* remove the duplicate template instantialize

* Copy vector to cpu

* add CopyToCPU

* xxx

* final version: fix the problem of all reduce

* remove mixvector dependence

* fix

* merge

* fix code

* fix by CI

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* change unary infermeta

* change other infermeta

* change all infermeta format

* resolve conflit

* fix test failed

* resolve reshape conflit

* fix compile failed

* adapt auto api gen

* fix reshape failed

* fix concat failed

* resolve conflict