* [Kunlun] PR1:Support one Kunlun card training in parallel executor (#29337)

* [Kunlun] PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor (#29574)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29926)

* add bkcl.so in whl for kunlun (#29947)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29961)
Co-authored-by: NQingshuChen <qingshu.chen714@gmail.com>

* fix bug of fetch_async_op_handle

* revert some changes of test_buffer_shared_memory_reuse_pass

* revert some changes of test_buffer_shared_memory_reuse_pass

* refine broadcast_op_handle

* refine some error messages

* refine some files

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* follow comments

* follow comments

* support use add instead of sum to do gradient accumulation

* add inplace addto pass

* add grad_add op and inplace addto pass

* remove debug code

* code refine

* fix bug when sereral sum ops inserts at same op_idx

* fix Flags type

* add addto attribute for conv3d

* fix ut

* code clean

* fix type

* polish pe exception process logic, test=develop

* fix unittest, test=develop

* add unittests, test=develop

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* fix warnings oof gcc 8 compilation, test=develop

* fix boost::bad_get, test=develop

* refine PADDLE_ENFORCE, test=develop

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* test fix fetch bar place for ce

* fix ps mode dist train in develop test=develop

* fix style check test=develop

* update test=develop

* refine parallelExecutor
test=develop

* Polish op_handle
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* Remove unnecessary op_handle
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* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

* Fix fetch bug
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* Remove WaitInputVarGenerated

* Fix OpHandleBase::Run
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* debug
test=develop

* use origin fetch_op_handle
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* Revert op_handle_base.cc
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

* Fix OpHandleBase::Run
test=develop

* code refine

* test CI and CE
test=develop

* fix OpHandle::Run
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* refine AllReduceOpHandle
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* Polish code
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* Fix Parallel Exe(VarHandel's version)

* Fix broadcast

* enhance ParallelExecutor stable

replace use_event with use_cuda, because use_event means the program running with CUDA, so use_cuda maybe more intuitive.