[Phi]Move Relu/Cos/Sin/Tan/Acos/Asin/Atan/Sinh/Cosh/Asinh/Acosh/Atanh kernels in Activation to Phi (#40175)

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment

* move conv to pten

* move conv to pten; test=develop

* fix bug;

* add conv cudnn impl; test=develop

* update

* update operator; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* move operator and prepared_operator to develop; test=develop

* resolve conflict; test=develop

* remove useless code;test=develop

* add depency ; test=develop

* fix bug;

* add sig.cc ; test=develop

* fix use_op error; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* add conv3d register; test=develop

* fix star gan and conv_nn_grad test failed; test=develop

* add header; test=develop

* manul to recover to develop;

* resolve confilct; test=develop

* remove useless code

* fix bug;

* remove conv2d_cudnn; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* fix cpu rocm compile bugs; test=develop

* fix blas error; test=develop

* fix compile bug; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* fix windows error; test=develop

* resolve confilct; test=develop

* support cudnn kernel moving

* polish cmake rules

* add unittest for coverage

* remove orig kernel

* remove softmax cudnn kernel

* fix softmax test failed

* fix npu func error

* resolve conflict

* rename gpu dnn kernels

* fix name rule error

* fix compile error

* update fp16 namespace

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* remove reshape and elementwise_add registry

* delete code

* fix bugs when run ci ut

* remove log

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run cinn

* fix bugs when run ci-mac-python3

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run kunlun

* fix bugs when compile

* update code according comment

* - Added softmax without caching

* - Binary is no longer manually cached

* - Activation onednn caching removed

* - Removed manual caching of activation

* - modified UT

* - fix

* - fix

* - fixes to building

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix to UT

* - Faulty UT workaround

* - approval workaround

* - Fixes after review

* - compilation fixes

* - more lint fixes

* - more fixes after review

* - fixes after another round of review

* - hopefully compilation fix

- compilation fix

This reverts commit 0a5c99e8.

* - Added softmax without caching

* - Binary is no longer manually cached

* - Activation onednn caching removed

* - Removed manual caching of activation

* - modified UT

* - fix

* - fix

* - fixes to building

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix to UT

* - Faulty UT workaround

* - approval workaround

* - Fixes after review

* - compilation fixes

* - more lint fixes

* - more fixes after review

* - fixes after another round of review

* - fix to #33282

* - Increased threshold for elementwise_mul_bf16 grad

* -disabled faulty UT

* - fix to approval

* - Added clearing oneDNN per executor

* - Executor is nt always having FLAGS_use_mkldnn set to true

* - Added UT for testing elementwise_mul caching

* lint fixes