Enhance error message of checkpoint_notify_op, fake_init_op gen_nccl_id_op and listen_and_serv_op (#24554)

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* Add isCached() mechanism for BatchNorm and LRN oneDNN operators
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* Formatting fix
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* add SetCommandLineOption

* add the print_FLAGS function

* remove the test demo

* modify the location of macro

* add the 'WITH_STATIC_LIB' option on windows

* modify the macro of PD_INFER_DECL

* modify the the fuction name

* modify the unittest

* modify the code style

* Add IsRuntime judgement in GRUUnit test=develop

* add IsRuntime judgement is GradOp test=develop

* Refine Error Message of SelecteInput/Output test=develop

* refine Error Message of RNNMemoryHelperOp test=develop

* append error op hint for grad op maker, test=develop

* add unittests for coverage, test=develop

* [dy2stat] Support len

* add convert_call func

* refine code test=develop

* Update PADDLE_ENFORCE in DNNL related ops
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* Abstract macro of OP_GET_PLACE_CHECK
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* update according to reviews

* update GET_PLACE_CPU_CHECK

* fix typo
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* revert macro
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* Support AucRunner in PaddleBox
* update some code style

* polish reader error message, test=develop

* fix detail error, test=develop

* reset activation dcudnn change, test=develop

* remove pow in speed up in dequantize_log test=develop

* remove pow in speed up in dequantize_log test=develop

* fix unittest test=develop

* Update isCached() to be thread freindly
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* Add isCached() check inside Softmax handler
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* Fix PaddleEnforce() message
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* fix bug of varbase.__getitem__, test=develop

* fix bug of float and other type, test=develop

API/OP(sequence_first_step, sequence_last_step, sequence_mask, beam_search, beam_search_decode) error message enhancement (#24590)

The background is that buddy_allocator_test depends on some big GPU allocations and current machine may not have it. It can cause random failure on cloud machine. After discussion with Shuo Tian, we decided to make buddy_allocator_test exclusive.