[cherry-pick] support layer_norm fp16 in dygraph amp (#30430)

cherry-pick #30553
fix bug of multicard grad ncclAllReduce, the gradient accumulater of parameters should be keep order, otherwsie, it will influence multicard ncclAllReduce of grad.

cherry-pick #30536

Fix the compiling error of update_loss_scaling when using cuda9.

* add trainers for pserver

Change-Id: I99c0ab1cc427318f1f9bf8f8f5faff2b8890645d

* add trainers for pserver

Change-Id: I1a75793ec81ce126d07f4c47cae09b95d530bbc8

* support transformer v2.0

* fix range op crash in dygraph xpu place

Co-authored-by: NWojciech Uss <wojciech.uss@intel.com>

* Modify the calculation logic of LambOptimizer (#29313)

* Modify the calculation logic of LambOptimizer

* Modify the calculation logic of LambOptimizer

* Modify the calculation logic of LambOptimizer

* add pad and concat double grad

* resolve conflict

* add fp16 support for tril_triu op (#30186)

* add VecCastCUDAKernel (#30296)
Co-authored-by: Nfurnace <34057289+windstamp@users.noreply.github.com>

Cherry-pick PR 30103. Add Inplace strategy (Output reuse Input Varbase) in dygraph (#30103) (#30496)

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

* Cherry-pick 30072, add dispenable input for core.ops.reshape2/expand/slice (#30072)

* add dispenable input 'shape' for core.ops.reshape2

* add dispenable inputs for core.ops.reshape2/expand/slice

* add ut

* save reshape update in pr 30180

* save reshape update v2 in pr 30180
Co-authored-by: NLeo Chen <chenqiuliang@baidu.com>

built-in `rsqrt` is shadowed

* add transpose double grad test=develop (#29600)

* add transpose double grad test=develop

* cherry-pick test=develop

* test=develop, add distributed_infer (#30300)

* test=develop, add distributed_infer

* test=develop, fix unittest cmakefile conflict

* test=develop, fix test_dist_fleet_base

* fix the rnn mask memory bug for out of read

* update the code for the rnn

* optimize memcpy perf for kunlun (#30291)

* optimize memcpy perf for kunlun

* remove useless unitest for kunlun mean

* minor

* fix bug that cann't find mkldnn(kunlun) (#30394)

* Add double grad for conv_transpose (#29706)

* add double grad for conv_transpose

* register cudnn conv double grad for depthwise conv (#29807)

* softmax backward optimize

* set expected place in child thread for dataloader

* set device id when set tensor from numpy

* revert tensor_py change

* add compile guard

* fix ci

* fix bug

[Cherry-pick] Remove c++ stacktrace open hint，cherry-pick of #30325

Change-Id: I3c788e7576688e63181e7f01562529b85a09cc59

* Register op version for grid_sampler, test=op_version (#29916)

* add op version for fake_quant and fake_dequant ops, test=op_version (#29923)

* Register op version for print, test=op_version (#29945)

* add gru op_register_version; test=op_version; (#29931)

* Register op version for coalesce_tensor. (#29940)

* register op version for conv2d_transpose, conv3d_transpose and depthwise_conv2d_transpose, test=op_version (#29937)

* add op_register_version for allclose op; test=op_version (#29968)

* register ModifyAttr for instance_norm, test=op_version (#29938)

* add op_version for flip op [test=op_version] (#30019)

* add the op version check for the elementwise ops, test=op_version (#30010)

* add the support the op version check for matmul, test=op_version (#30011)

* Revert "register ModifyAttr for instance_norm, test=op_version (#29938)"

* add REGISTER_OP_VERSION for generate_proposals, roi_align, roi_pool test=op_version (#30034)

* Fix rank_attention op_version, test=op_version (#30006)

* fix rank_attention, test=op_version

* Register op version for linspace,test=op_version (#30025)

* fix op_register_version for compare ops, test=op_version (#30007)
Co-authored-by: Nzhoushunjie <zhoushunjie@baidu.com>

* register ModifyAttr for instance_norm, test=op_version (#30065)

* register instance norm, test=op_version

* add trace op_register_version and fix version bug; test=op_version (#30000)

* fix a bug in op_version_registry, test=develop, test=op_version (#29994)

* Add version checking, test=op_version (#30129)

* fix a bug in gaussian_random_op version, test=release/2.0
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* change to tensor copy sync

* change to tensor copy sync

* make copy_to safe when use TensorCopy

* refine code

* add ut

* add cudapinned garbagecollector

* add testcase: cpu place -> cuda pinned place

* Fix server.h include device_context (#30243)

* fix cmake
Co-authored-by: NseiriosPlus <tangwei12@baidu.com>

* 【Paddle.Fleet】Support local save sparse param (#30175)

* add save tensor support
Co-authored-by: NseiriosPlus <tangwei12@baidu.com>

* add sparse embedding & load vars for 2.0 & gloo bug fix (#30306)

* add sparse embedding & load vars for 2.0

Change-Id: I36b59ed5f015189dc9d9d2e34a9357722d369f1b

* fix hdfs gloo

Change-Id: Ia84d579053720ad804183e54c9a04b4f031c79c6

* fix gloo hdfs

Change-Id: I5ab982fd483cddc10adcdef0b8aa83aca976cb9e

* move loadvar/sparse embedding from incubute to static

Change-Id: I57081d3545ad2efab78c72420d2162c0eacaf3a0
Co-authored-by: Ntangwei12 <tangwei12@baidu.com>

* fix datanorm error msg (#30294)

* Optimize the error message of framework. (#30134)

* modify error message based on comments (#30189)

* modify error message based on comments

* edit code according to review.

* Correct spelling according to review.

* fix enforce msg of sum xpu op (#30113)

* enhance error info for py_func (#30138)

* enhance error info for py_func

* update

* fix elugradgrad test fail & error message opt (#30171)

* fix elugradgrad test fail and error message opt

* fix unitest,test=develop

* Update prroi_pool_op.h

fix error message

* opt message,test=develop

* fix ci fail,test=develop

* Refine PADDLE_ENFORCE Error Messages. test=develop (#30149)

Improve some error messages in parallel_executor.cc, conditional_block_op.cc, recurrent_op.cc

* enhance error message, test=develop (#30220)

* fix error message for distribute_fpn_proposals_op (#30116)

* enhance error msgs of fusion_seqpool_cvm_concat_op.cc, test=develop (#30240)

* just add the op error message for the matmul xpu (#30246)

 add the op error message for the matmul xpu

* enhance error message of nll_loss op test=develop (#30125)

* enhance error message of nll_loss op test=develop
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[cherry-pick] use cuda generator in bernoulli cuda kernel (#30199)