[cherry-pick] updating mul and matmul with set_mem_desc and fix squeeze_transpose for MKLDNN (#47951)

* Fix slice bugs in MKLDNN when input dims are zeros (#46671)

* fix slice bugs

* fix

* update code

* fix

* update code

* updating mul and matmul with set_mem_desc (#45624)

* - mul & matmul changes

- fix

- bs16 correction of strides

* - cosmetic fixes

* - lint

* - fix

* - fix

* - format -> mem_desc

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix

* fix squueze_transpose (#47911)
Co-authored-by: NJacek Czaja <jacek.czaja@intel.com>