* Upgrade MKLDNN to v0.18-rc and fix issue caused by lib/lib64

Upgrade MKLDNN to v0.18-rc
Also fix the issue during upgrade

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* Rebase MKLDNN to rls-v0.18 branch

Some issues in v0.18-rc which caused INT8 conv op unit test failure was fixed
in rls-v0.18 branch

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* Upgrade MKLDNN from v0.18rc to formal v0.18 tag

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* Fix the windows compile issue.

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* staged.

* polish code

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* fix default value. test=develop

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* Revert "Optimze Gelu with MKL Erf function (#15770)"

This reverts commit 676995c8.

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* Optimize for gelu operator

* Set up the low accuracy mode of MKL ERF function.

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* Only enable MKLML ERF when OS is linux

* Use the speical mklml version included vmsErf function to verify gelu mkl kernel.

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* Add the CUDA macro to avoid NVCC's compile issue.

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* Add the TODO comments for mklml library modification.

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* Clean Code

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* Add the comment of marco for NVCC compiler.

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* fix mac cmake version 3.13 test=develop

* fix again test=develop

* Simplify the compare op for CPU.

* Use asynchronous tensor copy in reshape_op's kernel.

* Optimize while_op for test, avoiding creating variables every time.
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* Enable the cache of kernel type and kernel function.
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* Enable profiling with gperftools.

* Remove flags for testing, and fix the linking error.
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* Delete the codes of ChooseKernel.
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* Fix bug when preparing ExecutorPrepareContext for while_op.

* Fix missing depending on grpc libraries.

* Remove the redundant print.
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* Follow comments.

* Remove the codes related to prepare the ExecutorPrepareContext for while_op.
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Set correct TBB library name in debug build and remove warning related to rpath dependency from symlink.
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