* mem opt

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* refine code  test=develop

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* refine with cub test=develop

* fix mkldnn test && remove comments && test=develop

* polish code && test=develop

* add only_forward test && test=develop

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* fix mac cmake version 3.13 test=develop

* fix again test=develop

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* refactor tree2col operator with new memory mechanism test=develop

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* Modified API according to panyx0718 test=develop

* fix API change according to heavengate test=develop

* Modify API comment test=develop

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* Revert the modification of while_op in #14764.
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* Remove the dependency of GRPC_DEPS.
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* Simplify the compare op for CPU.

* Use asynchronous tensor copy in reshape_op's kernel.

* Optimize while_op for test, avoiding creating variables every time.
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* Enable the cache of kernel type and kernel function.
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* Enable profiling with gperftools.

* Remove flags for testing, and fix the linking error.
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* Delete the codes of ChooseKernel.
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* Fix bug when preparing ExecutorPrepareContext for while_op.

* Fix missing depending on grpc libraries.

* Remove the redundant print.
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* Follow comments.

* Remove the codes related to prepare the ExecutorPrepareContext for while_op.
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* disable conv3d mkldnn in dam

* Add some comments  test=develop

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