* make enforce a target and dependent on nccl when gpu is enabled

* add some more dependency

It caused by a bug of std::call_once described in https://stackoverflow.com/questions/41717579/stdcall-once-hangs-on-second-call-after-callable-threw-on-first-call. It is likely caused by a deeper bug of pthread_once, which is discussed in https://patchwork.ozlabs.org/patch/482350/

* init cudnn batch norm op

* rename batch_norm_cudnn_op.cc batch_norm_op.cu

* correct name style

* add ExtractNCWHD, simplify code

* fix ExtractNCWHD

* use CUDNN_ENFORCE instead of PADDLE_ENFORCE

* "add nccl enforce"

* Dev

* Update comment

* Add nccl test

* Follow comments

* initial matmul operator

Similar to np.matmul, but also has transpose_X and transpose_Y flags,
and only supports tensors from rank 1 to 3 inclusive.

For GPU, uses cublas?gemmStridedBatched. For CPU, uses
cblas_?gemm_batch if available via MKL; otherwise a simple serial
implementation that loops over the batch dimension is employed for now.

* Should always use `dynload::` for cuda function.
* Fix cublas.h without DSO load.