* clip softmax for fp16

* updates

* fuse xent support fp16 test=develop

* wip

* wip

* add simple row reduce

* wip fp16 accurate softmax

* add accurate softmax kernel for fp16 test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* update api.spec test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* fix trt build test=develop

* fix inference build test=develop

* fix merge test=develop

* update test=develop

* try fix build test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* rename real_exp test=develop

* fortest

* remove hacky kernels test=develop

* clean up test=develop