[cherry-pick 2.0rc1][inplace] Add ShareHolderWith for class Variable and SharePlaceholderWith in VarBase.detach() to share the same Tensor/SelectedRows (#29267) (#29359)

* basic impl of type promote

* add comment & another testcase

* fix complex bugs & support python op promote type

* fix failed unittests & polish code

* add unittest for coverage

* change to only promote complex type

* polish code details

* polish several comments

* Change the api of DataParallel and Fleet (#29224)

* hot fix complle failed in gcc4.8

* fix failed unittest

* add complex64 and complex128 type; add +-*/@ and slice opreator for complex types

* add test cases for complex elementwise, matmul and getitem unittest

* add test cases for complex types

* add test cases for complex matmul unittest

* Add a class TensorInplaceVersion to count the inplace version and put it in framework::Tensor instead of Allocation or Variable.

* Add a new attribute `_inplace_version` for VarBase.

* Raise exception if an inplace operation can result in incorrect gradient computation.

* Add a new interface _bump_inplace_version() for VarBase to bump the version whenever the Tensor is modified through an inplace operation.

* For api assign, call _bump_inplace_version() when it's an inplace operation inn dynamic mode.

* Use original var_wrapper if the inplace_version is not changed.

* Replace SnapshotVarWrapperList with SnapshotVarWrapper to optimize performane.

* fix failed tests in yingchun gived list

* add unittests into static_mode_white_list

* add enable static

* fix dist unittest

* skip test_sigmoid_focal_loss_op & add gym

* revert no need skip unittests

* remove gym

add API serialize_program, serialize_persistables, save_to_file, deserialize_program, deserialize_persistables, load_from_file. (#29034)

* Add bf16 pool2d and unify bf16 unit tests

* Add change default ops test

* Fix cpu_bfloat16_pass

* Add output_format

* Fix incorrect SetOutput

* Change fromating

* default not show cpp statck & add hint

* fix failed unittest

* fix failed unittests

* Add multi_gru_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* cleaned up headers

* Add multi_gru_seq_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* removed unused functions

* update, test=develop

* ps gpu transpile

* ps gpu

* remove op

* gps trainer

* local ps

* add macro

* HeterBox

* def cuda

* tab

* code style

* style

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* Add bf16 matmul, fc, elementwise add and mul

* Correct unit test

* use forward declarations for framework.pb.h, test=develop

* use forward declarations for framework.pb.h, test=develop

* Add checkpoint to quantize

* Change bfloat16 option

* add mkldnn inplace op version test

* update mkldnn_inplace fuse pass

* update the inplace test

* register op_version for addto

* upgrade pass capability

* change eq to le

* change eq to le

* fix merge

* skip_layernorm_op done

* add unittest

* slice op convertor support trt < 6

* skip_layernorm only work in ernie

* upgrade pass capability

* paddle-trt support mul channelwise quant

* add support for depthwise_conv2d

* add errmsg for unsupported op type

* disable ut test_parallel_executor_fetch_isolated_var,test=document_fix

* test for limiting ut exec time as 15S

* fix an error caused by cannot find ut

* fix some error

* can not find test_transformer

* fix error caused by ut not run in windows

* fix error caused by Compiler Options

* fix error caused by setting timeout value as 15 in python/paddle/tests/CMakeLists.txt

* setting timeout value to 120s for old ut

* add the timeout value setting

* fix error caused by ut only run in coverage_ci

* add analyzer_transformer_profile_tester

* fix some error

* fix some error

* fix error with inference option

* fix error with inference option setting as ON_INFER

* add some ut to set timeout

* modified some option

* fix error

* fix some timeout error

* fix error

* fix error

* fix timeout for test_analyzer_bfloat16_resnet50

* fix error

* setting timeout properity for some ut

* first pr for new ut timeout as 15S

* Add bfloat16 softmax and gelu

* Add pass attr bfloat16_enabled_op_types

* Changes from review

* - Added sum bf16 oneDNN

test=develop

* - Fix to UT of sum bf16

test=develop

* add conv_bias pass version test

* update according to reviews

* enhance the op_version_registry, test=develop

* add unittests, test=develop

* enhance the op_version_registry, test=develop

* fix bugs, test=develop

* revert pybind_boost_headers.h, test=develop

* fix a attribute bug, test=develop