* Standardise batch norm

* standardize conv3d and depwise_conv2d

* fix ci bugs

* namespace modify

* update by comment

* refactor the optional tensor

* remove optiona<MetaTensor> in InferMeta

* fix bug

* fix optional<vector<Tensor>>

* fix bug

* fix rmsprop

* fix amp of eager_gen

* polish code

* fix deleted code

* fix merge conflict

* polish code

* remove is_nullopt_

* fix merge conflict

* fix merge conflict

* fix bug of batch_norm_grad kernel with fp16

* format code

* add double yaml

* add inline func

* try to fix batch norm memory issue

* fix batch norm memroy alloc bug

* polish some code

* update

* fix bug

* move mutable_data to context alloc

* move mutable_data to context alloc

* remvoe duplicate code

* add bn cpu version; test=develop

* move batch norm to pten

* move batch norm to pten; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix func::tranpose depend bug; test=develop

* fix compile bugs; test=develop

* fix use_op batch_norm bug; test=develop

* fix cudnn bn add relu test; test=develop

* fix pten context build and double grad bug; test= develop

* remve useless code; test=develop

* add batch norm gpu fp16 support; test=develop

* fix test bn op bug; test=develop

* remove output dtype set; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix applay pass to program bug; test=develop

* revert to develop; test=develop

* fix rocm bug; test=develop

* revert operator to develop; test=develop

* fix pre_commit; test=develop

* fix statci check error; test=develop

* resolve conflict; test=develop

* ana batch norm bug;

* revert batch norm op

* resolve conlict

* fix nan inf and speed bug; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix error; test=develop

* test expand op; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* resolve confilct

* resolve confilct; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* change mutable data to ctx alloc; test=develop

* make format same with ci; test=develop

* fix format error with ci; test=develop