[Inference] Replace groupNorm when data types are bf16 and fp16, and data format is NHWC implementation. (#55399)

* finish

* cpergroup odd

* fix bf16

* single channel

* code style

* jingdu duiqi

* add head_file

* add bf16 head file

* bf16 2

* bf16

* bf16 head

* bf16 compile

* py test

* bf16 compile

* bf16 compile

* unset py test

* nhwc

* test

* mean var

* bf16 success

* su

* ctest success

* use is_same_as

* is_same

* use is_same

* rtol

* gpu_stream

* del sigmod

* fix bfloat16 type

* use cuda_bf16_hpp

* use_cuda_arch

* bfloat162float2

* del inplace_tol

* del max_releative_tol

* temp store

* jingdu duiqi

* temp store

* plugin

* jingdu duiqi

* duiqi

* include cuda.h

* del half

* half single

* ci

* add const

* ci

* cudamemset

* del printf

* fp16 test

* add half compute

* del br16 ci

* del ci

* ci approve

* del fluid include

* regist output type for GraphSampleNeighbors and GroupNorm

* Update return type

* fix return type

* update

* fix detail

* add fp16 and bf16 test

* update

* group norm fp16 support

* namespace modify

* update by comment

* add group_norm dyanmic plugin

resort .cu headers, set clang-format not sort include block and consider .cu as main source file (#43633)

* move_group_norm

* move group norm backward

* fix code format

* modify code according comment