[fleet_executor] Add retry to the message bus's send. Use unique_lock instead of calling lock(). (#37087)

* use unique lock, add retry

* bug fix

[fleet_executor] Implementation of the message bus, the carrier and part of the interceptor (#37049)

* graph engine demo

* upload unsaved changes

* fix dependency error

* fix shard_num problem

* py client

* remove lock and graph-type

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* batch random_sample

* batch_sample_k

* fix num_nodes size

* batch brpc

* batch brpc

* add test

* add test

* add load_nodes; change add_node function

* change sample return type to pair

* resolve conflict

* resolved conflict

* resolved conflict

* separate server and client

* merge pair type

* fix

* resolved conflict

* fixed segment fault; high-level VLOG for load edges and load nodes

* random_sample return 0

* rm useless loop

* test:load edge

* fix ret -1

* test: rm sample

* rm sample

* random_sample return future

* random_sample return int

* test fake node

* fixed here

* memory leak

* remove test code

* fix return problem

* add common_graph_table

* random sample node &test & change data-structure from linkedList to vector

* add common_graph_table

* sample with srand

* add node_types

* optimize nodes sample

* recover test

* random sample

* destruct weighted sampler

* GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* pybind sample nodes api

* pull nodes with step

* fixed pull_graph_list bug; add test for pull_graph_list by step

* add graph table;name

* add graph table;name

* add pybind

* add pybind

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* get_feat_node

* avoid local rpc

* fix get_node_feat

* fix get_node_feat

* remove log

* get_node_feat return  py:bytes

* merge develop with graph_engine

* fix threadpool.h head

* fix

* fix typo

* resolve conflict

* fix conflict

* recover lost content

* fix pybind of FeatureNode

* recover cmake

* recover tools

* resolve conflict

* resolve linking problem

* code style

* change test_server port

* fix code problems

* remove shard_num config

* remove redundent threads

* optimize start server

* remove logs

* fix code problems by reviewers' suggestions

* move graph files into a folder

* code style change

* remove graph operations from base table
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* graph engine demo

* upload unsaved changes

* fix dependency error

* fix shard_num problem

* py client

* remove lock and graph-type

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* batch random_sample

* batch_sample_k

* fix num_nodes size

* batch brpc

* batch brpc

* add test

* add test

* add load_nodes; change add_node function

* change sample return type to pair

* resolve conflict

* resolved conflict

* resolved conflict

* separate server and client

* merge pair type

* fix

* resolved conflict

* fixed segment fault; high-level VLOG for load edges and load nodes

* random_sample return 0

* rm useless loop

* test:load edge

* fix ret -1

* test: rm sample

* rm sample

* random_sample return future

* random_sample return int

* test fake node

* fixed here

* memory leak

* remove test code

* fix return problem

* add common_graph_table

* random sample node &test & change data-structure from linkedList to vector

* add common_graph_table

* sample with srand

* add node_types

* optimize nodes sample

* recover test

* random sample

* destruct weighted sampler

* GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* pybind sample nodes api

* pull nodes with step

* fixed pull_graph_list bug; add test for pull_graph_list by step

* add graph table;name

* add graph table;name

* add pybind

* add pybind

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* get_feat_node

* avoid local rpc

* fix get_node_feat

* fix get_node_feat

* remove log

* get_node_feat return  py:bytes

* merge develop with graph_engine

* fix threadpool.h head

* fix

* fix typo

* resolve conflict

* fix conflict

* recover lost content

* fix pybind of FeatureNode

* recover cmake

* recover tools

* resolve conflict

* resolve linking problem

* code style

* change test_server port

* fix code problems

* remove shard_num config

* remove redundent threads

* optimize start server

* remove logs

* fix code problems by reviewers' suggestions
Co-authored-by: NHuang Zhengjie <270018958@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: NWeiyue Su <weiyue.su@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nsuweiyue <suweiyue@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Nluobin06 <luobin06@baidu.com>
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* Add two types of Metric Calculator: MultiTaskCalculator & CmatchRankCalculator.
* Add a config for DynamicAdjustChannelNum function to denote whether we will discard the remaining instances when they are not be distributed evenly.
* Remove CPU code in Pull/PushSparse and we will add it back when testing it fully.
* Fix some known issues: such as copying persistable vars after one epoch running.

* Support looking up embeddings from BoxPS.
* Add a _pull_box_sparse op, for now this op is not exposed to users.
* Add a BoxHelper class, providing 'BeginPass', 'EndPass', 'FeedPass' functions and so on.
* Add 'BoxPSDataset' in python code.
* Add a compile options WITH_BOX_PS and a MACRO PADDLE_WITH_BOX_PS.
* Add UT.
* More concrete information pls refer to: https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/18982

* AsyncExecutor: C++ side

* Google naming conventions

* Rename MultiExecutor to AsyncExecutor

* pybind with async_executor

* Naming convention

* remove some flags and unused code

* add refactored file of async_executor and data_feed

* clear async executor interface and add data feed factory

* split async executor into executor_thread_worker and async_executor, refactor pybind, add datafeed and corresponding proto

* Fix async_executor interfaces: 1) Remove all protobufs; 2) Stop after each epoch

* refine async_executor_refactor.cc

* add some files about datafeed

* Revert "add some files about datafeed"

This reverts commit 8ee8133a.

* Interface rework

* add MultiSlotDataFeed

* Creating DataFeedDesc from .proto file, then manipulate it (add/del fields etc) from python side

* update data_feed for add MultiSlotDataFeed

* update datafeed and async_executor to run bow_net demo

* fix bug that finish_set_filelist failed in multithread

* delete finish_binding_memory_(flag), because it can not be marked under the current interface

* Fix bug

* update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots

* update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots and set set_dense_slots

* fix bug that when the number of files is less than the number of threads, it will fetch nan

* remove redundant code, and make executor exit when set a illegal queue size

* add batch_size check

* add MultiSlotDesc

* Revert "add MultiSlotDesc"

This reverts commit 2e72ebfa.

* add some checkpoint in DataFeedDesc

* add CheckFile function in MultiSlotDataFeed

* update something error info

* fix deaded lock bug

* Fix fetch variable

* Merge error

* fix code style in async_executor

* using one lock blocking queue replace two lock blocking queue because of some bugs

* update code style

* add utest for data_feed

* Fix fetch var

* update utest for data_feed for multithread

* update SetFileList info

* fix bug in utest of data_feed

* Add comments for python

* Add comments for python code

* Fix pybind.cc with new pybind11 version

* add note for DataFeedDesc's set_use_slots function

* Add save_model

* update data_feed_test for multi-type

* add comment for executor_thread_worker

* Remove unused code

* update data_feed_test for generate test data file

* removed unnecessary interfaces and add comments

* c++ style check

* update data_feed.cc

* AsyncExecutor: C++ side

Google naming conventions

Rename MultiExecutor to AsyncExecutor

pybind with async_executor

Naming convention

remove some flags and unused code

add refactored file of async_executor and data_feed

clear async executor interface and add data feed factory

split async executor into executor_thread_worker and async_executor, refactor pybind, add datafeed and corresponding proto

Fix async_executor interfaces: 1) Remove all protobufs; 2) Stop after each epoch

refine async_executor_refactor.cc

add some files about datafeed

Revert "add some files about datafeed"

This reverts commit 8ee8133a.

add MultiSlotDataFeed

Interface rework

Creating DataFeedDesc from .proto file, then manipulate it (add/del fields etc) from python side

update datafeed and async_executor to run bow_net demo

update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots

Fix bug

update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots and set set_dense_slots

fix bug that when the number of files is less than the number of threads, it will fetch nan

remove redundant code, and make executor exit when set a illegal queue size

add MultiSlotDesc

Revert "add MultiSlotDesc"

This reverts commit 2e72ebfa.

add some checkpoint in DataFeedDesc

Fix fetch variable

fix code style in async_executor

Fix fetch var

add utest for data_feed

Add comments for python

update utest for data_feed for multithread

fix bug in utest of data_feed

Add comments for python code

Fix pybind.cc with new pybind11 version

add note for DataFeedDesc's set_use_slots function

update data_feed_test for multi-type

Add save_model

update data_feed_test for generate test data file

removed unnecessary interfaces and add comments

add comment for executor_thread_worker

Remove unused code

update data_feed.cc

c++ style check

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* Comment away __init__ in async_executor.py

* clang-format fix test=develop

* use PADDLE_THROW instead of exit(-1); use unique_ptr to manage scope var in data_feed_test.cc

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* Add async_executor demo; Remove some methods
test=develop

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* update API.spec

* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* Fix API.spec
test=develop

* Fix API.spec
test=develop

* Fix windows build error
test=develop

* FIx windows build error
test=develop

* FIx windows build error
test=develop

* FIx windows build error
test=develop

* Fix Windows Build
test=develop

* Fix Windows Build
test=develop

* Fix Windows Build
test=develop

* Fix code style
test=develop

* Fix code style
test=develop

* update datafeed

* Fix code style
test=develop

* update data_feed_test for test Tensor test=develop

* Fix code style
test=develop

* Fix windows build failure
test=develop

* Fix code style and windows build failure
test=develop

* Fix PYTHON3.5 build failure
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* AsyncExecutor API
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* cpplint test and add tesnor_py_test.cc

* Update

* Update

* Update tensor_util.h

* Update with moved TensorDesc

* Fix tensur_utils.cu

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Make tensor_util.cu a symbolic link