[XPUPS]add support for kunlun2
Co-authored-by: NWorgenZhang <frank08081993@gmail.com>

* trainer and worker

* delete commonsparsetable from gpups

* delete vlog

* codestyle

* delete communicator from gpups

* dump cpu

* code format

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

add hashtable dynamic mf support

* psgpu:edit cuda remote_streams; test=develop

* pscore support heterps

* fleet cmake

* fleet wrapper

* macro

* solve conflict

* solve conflict

* add unitest

* paddle enforce

* unitest

* unitest

* unitest

* dump to cpu

* format

* format

* format

* 　add heter box

* add trainer, worker, wrapper...

* format

* for ci

* format

* remove boost get

* boost & copyright

* rename

* 　rename

* format

* format

* format
Co-authored-by: Nyaoxuefeng6 <yaoxuefeng@baidu.com>