【PRIM】Support use operator's output metadata info  in constructing static backward composite (#50043)

* [prim] support custom target_gradients

* support infershape after append one gradop

* [prim] add simple net test

* fix test_loop segment fault bug

* [prim] fix infer shape segment fault bug when output of grad_op_desc is empty

* proto type of composite grad in paddle

* proto type of composite grad in paddle

* refactor composite api with phi

* fix compile error

* support static graph code-gen for squeeze op

* generate static graph code of unsqueeze

* refine op name

* fix compile error

* add extra output in op_compat

* remove debug log

* fix clang compile error

* support prim switch flag

* support prim switch flag

* fix dygraph error

* merge develop

* add code_gen

* add necessary files without codegen

* fix code_gen bug

* add deps

* modify igmnore

* add ignore

* delete std cout

* add composite logic for backward.py

* add tanh first order grad composite

* support enable_prim flag for static graph

* throw expection when both GrapOpMaker and GradCompOpMaker not been registered

* reorganize the directory of prim api tests

* fix windows error

* add eager_utils

* add eager_utils

* modify code gen

* add composite parse

* add unittest for get_grad_op_desc

* code optimize

* fix static test on windows

* support generate static graph code for imag and real op

* fix windows compile error in test_static_prim

* merge develop

* disable test eager in inference

* prim code gen

* disable eager compile in inference

* rm other file

* rm gitignore file

* code_style

* add eager test

* code_style

* merge develop

* remove useless files

* modify static test

* support bool flag from singlton

* merge develop

* recover git ignore

* fix conflict

* recover git ignore for generated op

* fix test compile error

* remove some tests

* add python test

* fix some name issue

* add composite code gen

* modify backward yaml

* fix static composite grad maker code gen

* remove addtional files

* add some static funcs unit test

* fix some bugs

* fix composite grad maker register code gen

* optimize some functions
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Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NAllen Guo <alleng@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHaicheng Jiang <haichengj@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHaicheng Jiang <haichengj@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* update ipu releated passes
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NAllen Guo <alleng@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHaicheng Jiang <haichengj@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* remove ipu_pass_base

* update error msg

* update error msg 02

* split pr 01

* restore ipu_pass_base
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHaicheng Jiang <haichengj@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* modify the interface of Pass::Allay
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

* fix Pass::Apply interface
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

and #pragma once in edited headers

add #include<string> in edited headers

test=develop

* link IR graph to analysis graph

* add clean code and update

* add infer_clean_pass

* add ir_pass_manager

* support fc fuse executation

* fix ir circle

Reduce one level of inheritence.

add doc

* Use Builder Chain to decorate new builders. It is easy to extend
  builders.
* Make graphviz path as a build strategy, not a FLAGS.

* cpplint test and add tesnor_py_test.cc

* Update

* Update

* Update tensor_util.h

* Update with moved TensorDesc

* Fix tensur_utils.cu

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Make tensor_util.cu a symbolic link