* Modify kernels to support quantized_matmul

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Co-authored-by: Nsuperxf <1208713646@qq.com>

* refine static op return val

* support new ir load combine

* update

* polish code

* remove print

* support c concat

* update

* polish code

* fix bug

* polish code

* fix compile bug

* polish code

* remove useless code

* support_mmha
* add_python_api
* add_api_doc
* fix_doc_error
* fix_infermeta
* add_infermeta
* add_bf16_cuda_check
* add_bf16_check
* fix_ci_windows
* fix_ci_windows_kernel_register
* fix_test_mmha
* add_cumoffsets
* remove_bias
* delete_mmha_reshape_input_output
* rename_delete_hfile
* remove_fluid

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Co-authored-by: Nyangjianfengo1 <yangjianfeng01@baidu.com>

* add rmsnorm residual bias add and quant

* refine python interface

* add rmsnorm unittest

* Add layernorm

* fix layernorm unittest

* refine unittest

* fix example code

* fix review comment

* add variable_length_memory_efficient_attention
* update variable_length_memory_efficient_attention unittest
* update variable_length_mem_eff_attn's docs and unittest
* update variable_length_mem_eff_attn's docs
* Update test_variable_length_memory_efficient_attention.py
* Update variable_length_memory_efficient_attention.cu
* fix codestyle
* fix variable_length_fmha's docs and unittest
* fix variable_length_fmha's docs

* onednn: rename macro to PADDLE_WITH_DNNL

* onednn: rename macro to CINN_WITH_DNNL

* move decayed_adagrad_op to phi

* fix bug

* fix security bug

* fix security bug

support stride

* add IndexPutGradInfermeta to fix backward error in static-mode

* codestyle

* add feed with place op

* remove useless unitest

* udpate mkldnn

* update

* add enable_static

* remove useless test case

* register int and doubel type

* fix bug

* fix mea seg fault develop

* fix bias_grad seg fault

* add init value for CudaSwishFunctor

* add new phi kernel fusedBiasActKernel

* [prim]support fp16 for instance_norm and instance_norm_grad

* support fp16 and bfp16 dtype for instance_norm prim rules

* fix new ir test

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Co-authored-by: Ncxxly <chenxx_id@163.com>

* add phi operator c_concat and ut

* update create_var use

* update copyright

* add matmul int8

* refine program translator

* fix warning: not override

* fix bug

* merge new modifications

* modify by reviews

* resolve conflicts

* resolve conflicts

* fix

* fix

* update

* support selected rows

* update

* add selectrows

* fix bug

* add ut

* refine code

* refien code

* update

* update

* support selected rows

* support selected rows

* support dense tensor

* remove useless code

* polish code

* remote standalone executor test

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Co-authored-by: Nkangguangli <kangguangli@hotmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nzhangbo9674 <zhangbo54@baidu.com>

* [clang-tidy] enable readability-container-size-empty check

* fix test_custom_kernel Failed

* add clang-tid-10 in dockerfile

* add clang-tidy in dockerfile

* fix bug

* support sharding parallel

* fix name

* fix

* update

* test amp for sharding

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Co-authored-by: pangengzheng <pangengzheng.baidu.com>

* add rmsnorm kernel
* add static graph test
* fix round type
* use alignas to avoid msvc compile error
* remove redundant headerfile to avoid rocm compile error
* fix rocm compile not found cub
* Add document

* rename weight_only/llm.int8

* suport optional input in new_ir

* polish code

* add coverate test

* update

* update

* add unitest

* remove reduplicate code

* udpate

* fix assign error

* revert test arg min max

* update

* fix bug

* polish code