add save cache model api in fleet& add slots shuffle in dataset module & add metric op to calculate ctr related metrics (#18871)

* add ctr related metric layer test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* fix error

* fix error

* fix style for ci

* fix for comments

* change SlotsShuffle input to std::strinf for generality

* fix style

* fix style

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* fix stylr

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* change non-const reference to pointer

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix style  test=develop

* add return ins num in ctr metric op

* change dtype to float in metric_op.py

* fix error test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix API spec

* fix API spec

* fix API spec test=develop

* add UT test=develop

* deprecate python memory optimize, test=develop

* remove memory_optimize in unittests, test=develop

* add unittests to deprecated interfaces, test=develop

* add a place field in DataFeed to denote which place it will feed data to.
* abstract the copy process in CopyToFeedTensor function
* add UT for float32 type and for CUDAPlace

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* remove compile from PE
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* add eye op,test=document_preview test=develop

* fix the API.spec, test=develop

* fix the document, test=document_preview test=develop

* add unitest for CI coverage, test=develop

* add trilinear interp. test=develop

* fix unittest. test=develop

* add python api and test_layers. test=develop

* refine API.spec. test=develop

* fix format. test=develop

* add python API test. test=develop

* format code. test=develop

* refine code strcuture. test=develop

* fix format

* fix doc. test=develop

* fix converage. test=develop

* fix format. test=develop

* Enhance fuse optimization op pass
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* Add call stack info during runtime and compile time
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* Rename operator_call_stack
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* Add unit test
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* follow comment
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* add fleet util (fleet/utils/fleet_util.py): functions for users' convenience
* add some interface in hdfs util : hdfs is_file、hdfs cat

* add train demo for imdb text classification task

* make inference library release data_feed dataset dataset_factory data_feed_factory

* add String Data Generator

* new feature of train demo: save model params

* New feature of train demo: set training config using gflags

* change code style for CI

* add readme and dataset for imdb demo trainer

* update roi doc in roi_pool and roi_align, test=develop

* fix memory overlapping of fetch var (return of executor.run), test=develop

* fix wrong usage of ParallelExecutor in op_test, test=develop

* remove useless parameter and simplify code

* avoid tensor destruct untimely, test=develop

* add testcase independent of OpTest, test=develop

* fix overflow by int32 mul test=develop

* fix reference nullptr

* fix codestyle test=develop

* modify to point in ContextProjectFunctor test=develop

* modify to point in ContextProjectFunctor test=develop

* modify . to -> test=develop

* add var_conv_2d op test=develop

* edit api.spec test=develop

* ignore unittest if with_mkl=off test=develop

* fix python3 division test=develop

* fix ignore unittest bug test=develop

* remove useless code test=develop

* modify api.spec test=develop

* modify default_grad.spec test=develop

* fix profiler doc error, test=develop

* update API.spec, test=develop

Fix dropout in nn.py

* fix g_param shape mismatch in WeightNormParamAttr

* add comment to show why insert reshape in startup_program
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* fix warpctc.dll not found issue, test=develop

* revert the linux platform change, test=develop

* delete warpctc_lib_path.h.in, test=develop

* add SetPySitePackagePath function

* fix warpctc.dylib not found issue on Mac, test=develop

* improve the paddle lib path setting logic, test=develop

* fix mac ci issue caused by test_warpctc_op unittest, test=develop

* tweak code, test=develop

* update exe.run

* test=develop support Tensor input for ctc_align_op

* test=develop add some comment

make listen and server as exclusive run 

* test=develop test=document_preview

* Update API.spec

* open gc by default, test=develop

* fix test_train_recognize_digits and disable gc when ngraph is enabled, test=develop

* fix conditional_block op eager deletion bug, test=develop

* add some comments to reviewers, test=develop

* support filelist size < trainer num
* pull dense when stop, to make sure local dense params are same as pserver, so save paddle model will save dense model same as pserver
*  enable QueueDataset train same filelist for serveral times

* add fusion_seqpool_cvm_concat test=develop

* simplify pass, test=develop

* fix code style, test=develop

adjust ins weight according to nid slot , user can specify adjust_ins_weight in strategy

* test=develop
Add the op of unique_with_counts, the op is calc the unqiue input of data, and output the corresponding indices and count of data.

* test=develop
Check the input and dtype in the op of unique_with_counts

* test=develop
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update the API.spec for `unique_with_counts`, at the same time, optimize the python api in the op of `unique_with_count`

* test=develop
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Fix some python api problem in the op of `unique_with_counts`, and change the error messsage in this op.

* Fix some API problem in the op of `unique_with_counts`
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* test=develop
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Fix the api sample of op `unique_with_counts`, and update api.spec

* fix depthwise conv gpu kernel bug, test=develop
* add more depthwise conv test, test=develop

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(1) set fleet_send_batch_num a default value according to trainer num， the previous 80000 is fixed，if trainer num is much less or larger than 100，global shuffle may have timeout error.

(2) fix load one table bug, add barrier

* update parallel.py
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* support center loss
* change tensor copy  api to high level api tensorcopy

* test=develop rewrite the center_loss cuda_kernel to make it faster
and add document of the center loss api,also update test function

* test=document_preview test=develop
update document of center loss

* test=document_preview test=develop
modify API.spec modify test code remove nouse const_cast

Update conv2d transpose link

make dist unit test exclusive run