implement dygraph.parallel.DataParallel to hook reduce op.

* wip allreduce in op

* wip

* wip

* wip

* wip adding test

* wip for conflict with mp mode

* fix tests test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix travis clang format test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* update api.spec test=develop

* delete comment test=develop

* fix cpplint test=develop

* fix test=develop

* follow comment test=develop

* add file test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* update test=develop

* to be compatible with sync_bn, and fix mp mode in develop test=develop