cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* refine parallelExecutor
test=develop

* Polish op_handle
test=develop

* Remove unnecessary op_handle
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

* Fix fetch bug
test=develop

* Remove WaitInputVarGenerated

* Fix OpHandleBase::Run
test=develop

* debug
test=develop

* use origin fetch_op_handle
test=develop

* Revert op_handle_base.cc
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

* Fix OpHandleBase::Run
test=develop

* code refine

* test CI and CE
test=develop

* fix OpHandle::Run
test=develop

* refine AllReduceOpHandle
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

test=develop

* fix nccl2 lars dist support

* put lars in momentum op

* add tests lars

* fix ci

* fix cpu kernel

* soft warning

* remove lars in test_recognize_digits.py

* move to another op

* add file

* update api.spec test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix api.spec test=develop

* wip

* wip, finish grad merge ops

* wip, finish graph build

* wip test running

* work on 1 gpu

* workable version

* update

* fix tests

* fuse broadcast op

* fix compile failed

* refine

* add batch merge test mnist

* fix CI test=develop

* fix build

* use independent bn params for batch merge test=develop

* update api.spec

* follow comments and for test

* wip

* refine tests test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* remove startup bn modify test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* fix merge test=develop

* Use Builder Chain to decorate new builders. It is easy to extend
  builders.
* Make graphviz path as a build strategy, not a FLAGS.

* Privatize OpHandleBase

* Clean up a few private members

* Update tensor_util.h

* Update with moved TensorDesc

* Fix tensur_utils.cu

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Make tensor_util.cu a symbolic link