* refactor: gloo comm context migration

* fix: headers & avoid mutable_data usage

* fix: cmake gloo dep

* style: rename funcs

* refactor: move to new files

* fix: gloo deps

* refactor: simplify create device

* comm_context and static init

* refactor: move to phi/core/distributed

* refactor: avoid mutable_data usage

* fix: windows sock

* fix: device without nccl
Co-authored-by: Wen Sun <syl1887415157@126.com>