* [ROCM] fix cupti, hipcub

* update

* update

* [CustomKernel] add custom kernel c api

* update

* update

* fix unable to export capi
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* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* [PluggableDevice]custom kernel to pten core structs

* mod extension.h for custom op

* compatible python for CI

* support custom context

* refactor to pten

* fix windows and ut

* [Demo] custom kernel based on pten kernel

* merge and npu custom work well

* del comments

* delete other code

* fix CUDAContext

* fix not found small_vector.h

* support NPU

* fix NPUContext

* fix DeviceContext support

* add UT

* fix call

* add UT

* fix

* fix for comments and ut

* add MACRO control

* fix multi input output

* support env CUSTOM_DEVICE_ROOT

* deal with special cases

* fix for Windows

* try coverage with test_custom_kernel_dot.py

* fix test_custom_kernel_dot

* fix test_custom_kernel_dot

* fix merge

* fix merge

* fix CI

* update

* merge and fix

* remove WITH_CUSTOM_KERNEL

* fix merge

* merge and fix

* fix ut

* fix ut for mac

* add more UT

* add more UT

* fix