[Eager, Performance optimization] reduce_all interface move reduce_all flag from python to C++ (#45744)

* [Eager, Performance optimization] move reduce_all flag from python to c++

* polish reduce_all

* fix ci error

* fix errors

* [Eager, Performance optimization] reduce_max / min polish

* polish reduce_max / min

* update min/max kernel reduce_all logic

* fix a mistake

* fix ci errors

* fix errors

* set use_cudnn=true for conv2d

* clear opmaker of matmul_v2

* fix bug of set_attr

* add extra attr checker in infer_shape

* fix grad error of grounorm op when cuda version==11.7

* gaussian random

* mkldnn to onednn renaming

* fix merge conflicts

* remove fluid code

* onednn renaming

* Move classes from mkldnn_reuse.h to onednn_reuse.h

* Move more functions from mkldnn_helper.h to onednn_helpper.h

* Change MKLDNN to OneDNN in VLOG message
Co-authored-by: NSilv3S <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* fix compile error in gcc540

* remove extra attr of opmaker

* remove extra attr of gru

* revert scale

* fix bug of create_op

* add extra attr checker in infer_shape

* fix gelu

* [OpAttr]Fix complation error of XPU from Pool2dGradKernel

* test=kunlun

* [Eager] fix pool2d interface under eager mode

* add use_gpudnn for pool2d

* fix pool2d yaml conflicts

* fix pool2d yaml

* migrate memcpy to phi

* fix typo error

* fix typo error

* fix  bug and testcase

* fix typo, uniform_random_kernel.cc header

* fix Alloc pinned bug

* change GPUContext::GetPinnedPlace

* add GetPinnedPlace function

* add GetPinnedPlace function

* restore default throw error

* fix Unimplemented error

* skip StandaloneExecutor testcase

* delete memcpy_sig

* [Eager, Performance optimization] fix pool3d under eager mode

* polish code

* move one_hot_v2, p_norm, p_norm_grad to phi

* move one_hot_v2, p_norm, p_norm_grad to phi

test=kunlun

* remove unused header file

* remove unused header file

test=kunlun

* move elementwise_sub and elementwise_sub_grad XPU kernel to PHI,test=kunlun

* modify code style,test=kunlun

* modify elementwise_subtract_grad_kernel.cc,test=kunlun

* modify elementwise_subtract_kernel.cc,test=kunlun

* modify elementwise_subtract_grad_kernel.cc,test=kunlun

* modify elementwise_kernel.cc and elementwise_subtract_kernel.cc,test=kunlun

* modify codestyle,test=kunlun

* modify elementwise_kernel.cc,test=kunlun

* [OpAttr]ksize of pool2d support Tensor type

* fix unittest

* add unittest

* gaussian random

* mkldnn to onednn renaming

* fix merge conflicts

* remove fluid code

* onednn renaming

* change header path

* change fluid import to phi

* add serialization funcs in phi

* migrate serialization utils

* set use_cudnn=true for conv2d

* refine the config rule of api_compat

* remove extra attr of abs in opmaker

* remove extra attrs of some op in opmaker

* remove is_test of conv

* fix attr getting of interpretercore

* fix inplace_abn

* fix bug

* fix bug of create_op

* refine code format

* [Eager] fix spectral_norm interface under eager mode

* fix spectral_norm yaml config

* move stack op to phi, *test=kunlun

* move stack op to phi, *test=kunlun

* move stack op to phi, *test=kunlun

* move stack op to phi, *test=kunlun

* move stack op to phi, *test=kunlun

* move stack to phi,*test=kunlun

* add dist cuda kernel

* reuse some funcs in phi

* 使用pnorm

* fix code style - explicit

* fix code sytle

* fix bug

* remove unused headers

* add batch norm xpu kernel

* add batch_orm_grad xpu kernel, test=kunlun

* fix lost changing error, test=kunlun

* remove batch norm op xpu, test=kunlun

* fix dtype error, test=kunlun

* fix const deduce error, test=kunlun