[Pten]Refactor elementwise_add grad / double grad / triple grad Kernel and move them to pten (#39048)

* refactor elementwise add grad

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bugs

* fix file conflicts

* fix bugs when buildPtenContext

* migration of functors in paddle/fluid/operators/eigen and paddle/fluid/platform/eigen_ext.h
* update path of data types like float16.h in includes in extensions.h

* updates callers, test=develop

* updates tensor, test=develop

* fixes errors, test=develop

* remove some dtypes, test=develop

* fix errors in the base storage modification, test=develop

* fixes a bug, test=develop

* fixes the bugs in push the whole, test=develop

* updates, test=develop

* update

* update, test=develop

* fixes the mac-py3 CI, test=develop

* remove the storage impl, test=develop

* updates some codes, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* updates pten allocation, test=develop

* auto gen include headers

* move to pten.cmake

* fix test concat dev api build failed

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* add kernel for c++ api

* fix compile bugs

* fix kunlun compile bugs

* perfect cmake

* fix compile bugs when run ci-inference

* fix compile bugs

* add non-raw kernel for fluid op

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bug

* Migrate Dim and DDim from paddle::framework into pten namespace

* fix paddle::framework::Array

* fix framework::Array

* Migrate bfloat16/float16/complex from platform into pten::common

* fix typo

* fix code style

* remove MakePtenTensor in BuildKernelContext

* fix a bug caused by storage

* remove WriteBackOutput in dynamic and static mode

* fix complie error of std::max

* fix complie error of std::max

* fix date_type bug

* fix memory alloc bug

* add some debug info

* fix compile problem

* fix problem of data_type check

* comment out some unreached code

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Merge Tensor into DenseTensor

* Fixed namespace issues,test=allcases

* Fixed merge issues

* Fixed inference issues

* Fixed NPU test issues

* Fixed merge issues

* add pten::Place data structure.

* update ci problem

* fix ci problem

* update

* using platform::Place=pten::Place

* remove BOOST_GET_CONST for CPUPlace and GPUPlace

* compile pass 25%.

* compile pass 45%

* compile pass 60%

* remove boost_get for xpu npu mlu and ipu

* compile pass on cpu and gpu.

* fix compile problem

* fix compile error.

* update

* fix ci problem

* update

* ci approve

* fix ci problem

* fix ci eager test problem

* remove BOOST_GET_CONST

* fix npu compile

* rename register marco

* fix error changing

* fix format error

* move dot_dev api into dot_kernel.h

* add infermate header

* modify to dotkerel in dot_op.h

* mvoe conj dev api into complex_kernel.h

* move sign dev api into  sign_kernel.h

* move scale dev api into kernel.h and remove infermete.h

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* rm include dir

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* fix conflict with develop branch

* rm devContext in conj_op.h

* add the missing complex_kernel header

* remove hybird dir

* resolve conflit

* move dot_dev api into dot_kernel.h

* add infermate header

* modify to dotkerel in dot_op.h

* mvoe conj dev api into complex_kernel.h

* move sign dev api into  sign_kernel.h

* refactor the impl of elementwise grad kernel

* refactor impl of elementwise grad kernel(cuda)

* fix compile bugs

* first commit

* fix wrong filename

* fix the wrong spell name

* fix gpu config warper

* modify according to pr advices

* fix GpuLauchConfig1D api bugs

* change the config for dropout grad

* fix bugs

* modification according to pr advices

* modification according to pr advices

* refactor matmul directory in pten

* fix merge conflict

* add dot_grad kernel

* add dot_grad kernel in pten

* add matmul_grad kernel

* update the code

* delete useless code in fluid

* fix some bug of running matmul grad kernel

* fix merge conflict

* refactor some code

* refactor code

* refactor flatten grad kernel

* fix bugs when run ci unittest

* fix bugs when use default GetExpectedPtenKernelArgs

* xshape sometimes is has null holder ,fix this bugs

* move mid api and rename kernel

* use empty kernel

* move eigen/reduce.h imple into cpu/reduce.h

* ctx to dev_ctx

* adjust the full kernel

* remove creation.h

* use Empty to create tensor in full

* move gpu_impl of elementwise kernel

* change copyright to 2022

* change 'math' to 'math_kernel'

* fix compile bugs

* merge develop

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* move reduce files by new rule

* add set header

* format code style

* merge develop and fix conflict

* merge develop and fix conflict
Co-authored-by: NYuanRisheng <yuanrisheng@baidu.com>

* polish infermeta filename

* polish infermeta filename