* decouple cudnn_desc.h from fluid

* move cudnn_desc.h from fluid to phi

* fix bugs

* decouple cudnn_helper.h from fluid

* fix bugs

* move cudnn_helper.h from fluid to phi

* add fluid cudnn_helper.h

* move miopen_desc.h from fluid to phi

* move miopen_helper.h from fluid to phi

* fix bugs

* move gpu_dnn.h from fluid to phi

* fix bugs

* update copyright year

* simplify gpu_dnn.h in fluid

* fix bugs

* fix xpu build bug

* fix compile bug

* fix bug

* add bfloat16 support for more ops

* fix ci compile

* fix windows compile error

* fix windows compile error

* fix rocm compile error

* fix ROCM compile error

* move cross_entropy from fluid to phi

* replace mutable_data with Alloc

* use .template

* move "paddle/phi/backends/gpu/gpu_device_function.h" to phi

* update copyright years

* rm "fluid/platform/device/gpu/gpu_device_function.h" in phi

* fix rocm-complie bugs

* perfect copy

* deal with conflict

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix unittest bugs

* change code format

* deal with conflict

* modify code by review

* fix ce bugs

* fix ce bugs

* add lo

* perfect code format

* deal with conflicts

* chnage dispatch to visit

* resolve conflict

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error