* move mkldnn activation kernel

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix windows compile bugs

* mkldnn unittest fix

* change mutable to alloc

* fix unittest bugs

* modify code according comment

* rename softmax kernel name

* move softmax infershape

* fix failed test

[Phi]Move Relu/Cos/Sin/Tan/Acos/Asin/Atan/Sinh/Cosh/Asinh/Acosh/Atanh kernels in Activation to Phi (#40175)

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment

* support cudnn kernel moving

* polish cmake rules

* add unittest for coverage

* remove orig kernel

* remove softmax cudnn kernel

* fix softmax test failed

* fix npu func error

* resolve conflict

* rename gpu dnn kernels

* fix name rule error

* fix compile error

* update fp16 namespace

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* remove reshape and elementwise_add registry

* delete code

* fix bugs when run ci ut

* remove log

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run cinn

* fix bugs when run ci-mac-python3

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run kunlun

* fix bugs when compile

* update code according comment

* - fix to #33282

* - Increased threshold for elementwise_mul_bf16 grad

* -disabled faulty UT

* - fix to approval