MKLDNN conv + elementwise_add fusion: implementation of patterns refarctored, applied to graph. UTs added

test=develop

* add MKL-DNN placement pass

This patch also refactors conv+bn (includes changes from PR
https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/13926)
updated to use the mkldnn-placement-pass.

test=develop

* remove redundant pass list

* add comment on the default first pass

* fix test for conv+relu mkldnn fuse

test=develop

review fix

review from hshen14 fix

test=develop

fix error in broadcast and code cleanup

rename bias -> eltwise and added macro to shorten code

formatting

- add naive executor
- fix concurrency performance issue

- Added draft of new operator

- Added fused embedding fc lstm files

- First time embedding_fc_lstm_fuse_pass was invoked in
  test_text_classification

- Added Embedding pattern

- Not crashing

- Enabled draft of embedding_fc_lstm pass (does it job)

- First working (Seqcompute only) version

- Removed diagnostic comment

- First enabling of BatchCompute

- Disabling pass for embedding with is_sparse and is_distributed

- Cosmetics

- Style

- Style

* Add Preface

* Add demo code

* Save file

* Refine code

* seems can work

* use elementwise strategy

* Use ElementwiseComputeEx

* Add comments

* extract functions from operator

* Refine code

* Follow comment

* code refine

* add op_fuse  pass

* add backward

* code refine

* use TopologySortOperations

* follow comments

* refine IsFusible

* code enhance

* fix op_fusion_pass

* refine code

* refine fuse_elemwise_act_op

* adjust the input and output

* refine logic

* add intermediate_edge

* disable inplace

* follow comments

* refine logic

* follow comments

* Remove the removable IntermediateOut

* change strategy

* code refine

* enable fuse backward

* code refine

* code refine

* rename unit test

* follow comments

fix a few other things

* link IR graph to analysis graph

* add clean code and update

* add infer_clean_pass

* add ir_pass_manager

* support fc fuse executation

* fix ir circle