fix nccl init failed in parallel dygraph mode (#28497)

paddle/fluid/imperative/nccl_context.cc

@@ -49,16 +49,20 @@ void NCCLParallelContext::RecvNCCLID(const std::string &ep,
   address.sin_port = htons(port);
 
   int try_times = 0;
+  int retry_time = 0;
   while (true) {
     if (bind(server_fd, (struct sockaddr *)&address, sizeof(address)) < 0) {
+      retry_time = 3 * (try_times + 1);
       LOG(WARNING) << "Socket bind worker " << ep
-                   << (try_times < 5 ? " failed, try again after 3 seconds."
-                                     : " failed, try again after 3 seconds. "
-                                       "Bind on endpoint %s failed. "
-                                       "Please confirm whether the "
-                                       "communication port or GPU card is "
-                                       "occupied.");
-      std::this_thread::sleep_for(std::chrono::seconds(3));
+                   << (try_times < 9
+                           ? " failed, try again after " +
+                                 std::to_string(retry_time) + " seconds."
+                           : " failed, try again after " +
+                                 std::to_string(retry_time) +
+                                 " seconds. Bind on endpoint " + ep +
+                                 " failed. Please confirm whether the "
+                                 "communication port or GPU card is occupied.");
+      std::this_thread::sleep_for(std::chrono::seconds(retry_time));
       ++try_times;
       continue;
     }
@@ -129,16 +133,20 @@ void NCCLParallelContext::SendNCCLID(const std::string &ep,
   }
 
   int try_times = 0;
+  int retry_time = 0;
   while (true) {
     if (connect(sock, (struct sockaddr *)&serv_addr, sizeof(serv_addr)) < 0) {
+      retry_time = 3 * (try_times + 1);
       LOG(WARNING)
           << "Socket connect worker " << ep
-          << (try_times < 5
-                  ? " failed, try again after 3 seconds."
-                  : " failed, try again after 3 seconds. Maybe that "
-                    "some process is occupied the GPUs of this node "
-                    "now, and you should kill those process manually.");
-      std::this_thread::sleep_for(std::chrono::seconds(3));
+          << (try_times < 9
+                  ? " failed, try again after " + std::to_string(retry_time) +
+                        " seconds."
+                  : " failed, try again after " + std::to_string(retry_time) +
+                        " seconds. Maybe that some process is occupied the "
+                        "GPUs of this node now, and you should kill those "
+                        "process manually.");
+      std::this_thread::sleep_for(std::chrono::seconds(retry_time));
       ++try_times;
       continue;
     }

python/paddle/distributed/parallel.py

@@ -125,7 +125,7 @@ def init_parallel_env():
     if ParallelEnv().world_size < 2:
         return
 
-    # 3: init gloo context
+    # 3: init gloo context (step 1: httpsever start)
     ep_rank_0 = ParallelEnv().trainer_endpoints[0].split(":")
     ep_rank = ParallelEnv().trainer_endpoints[ParallelEnv().rank].split(":")
     manager = Manager()
@@ -138,22 +138,6 @@ def init_parallel_env():
         http_server.daemon = True
         http_server_d["running"] = True
         http_server.start()
-    wait_server_ready([ParallelEnv().trainer_endpoints[0]])
-
-    gloo_strategy = core.GlooParallelStrategy()
-    gloo_strategy.rank = ParallelEnv().rank
-    gloo_strategy.rank_num = ParallelEnv().world_size
-    gloo_strategy.ip_address = ep_rank_0[0]
-    gloo_strategy.ip_port = int(ep_rank_0[1])
-    default_init_timeout_seconds = 3600
-    default_run_timeout_seconds = 9999999
-    gloo_strategy.init_seconds = default_init_timeout_seconds
-    gloo_strategy.run_seconds = default_run_timeout_seconds
-    gloo = core.GlooParallelContext(gloo_strategy)
-    gloo.init()
-    if ParallelEnv().rank == 0:
-        http_server_d["running"] = False
-        http_server.join()
 
     # 4. init NCCL ParallelStrategy
     strategy = ParallelStrategy()
@@ -177,6 +161,27 @@ def init_parallel_env():
     parallel_helper._set_parallel_ctx(core.NCCLParallelContext(strategy, place))
     parallel_helper._init_parallel_ctx()
 
+    # 5: init gloo context (step 2: gloo init)
+    # dividing init_gloo into two part beacause nccl and gloo
+    # are separately looking for free ports which sometimes
+    # leads to port-conflict.
+    wait_server_ready([ParallelEnv().trainer_endpoints[0]])
+
+    gloo_strategy = core.GlooParallelStrategy()
+    gloo_strategy.rank = ParallelEnv().rank
+    gloo_strategy.rank_num = ParallelEnv().world_size
+    gloo_strategy.ip_address = ep_rank_0[0]
+    gloo_strategy.ip_port = int(ep_rank_0[1])
+    default_init_timeout_seconds = 3600
+    default_run_timeout_seconds = 9999999
+    gloo_strategy.init_seconds = default_init_timeout_seconds
+    gloo_strategy.run_seconds = default_run_timeout_seconds
+    gloo = core.GlooParallelContext(gloo_strategy)
+    gloo.init()
+    if ParallelEnv().rank == 0:
+        http_server_d["running"] = False
+        http_server.join()
+
 
 def get_rank():
     """