* reduce .so size. test=develop

* compile all targets when LITE_ON_TINY_PUBLISH=OFF

* unordered_map is more convenient when key is customized class

* test=develop

* [NPU] revert shape check for input&output

* [NPU] reshape elt input&output

[LITE][NPU] Add instance_norm op bridge and unit test, refine the registration of op bridges (#2747)

[LITE][CORE][NPU][XPU] Recording the data type when mutable_data() is called, and supporting the type inference from the tensor for the op bridges (#2735)

* Fix the compiling error which occurs when specify the ddk_root path and build for huawei NPU.

* Refine the registration of op bridges and make it similar to the registration of op and kernel.

* Refine the interfaces of the graph and node for op bridges, and support creating constant and data node automatically according to the attribute 'persistable' of the target tensor.

* Add the unit test of the scale and softmax op bridge for NPU.

* Support multiple types for XPU and NPU op bridges

* Add lookup_table, gather, slice, stack and scale op bridges for supporting BERT

* Fix the definition of lookup_table kernel for X86

[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

[LITE][NPU] Add fusion_elementwise_add_activation bridge, remove the limitation of the dimensions of input tensors in the graph compute kernel, and refine log message (#2395)

test=develop

* Add supporting for Huawei offical DDK
* Fix the param of graph op in NPU graph computing kernel